Too much Virgo, 8th house?

[alliewar]

oh wow, a guy i really like has an identical chart. born on Sept 14 1987. Virgo sun, venus and mars all in the 8th house. I asked him out once and i told him to call me back on that day to hang out... but he never called back... which was weird, we both find each other realllly attractive, its just weird that he just cut off contact with me all of a sudden.. i don't know, maybe its some weird virgoness trait.

 

[Raindrops]

I have sun and venus in Virgo, but 7 planets in the 6th house...
I love to study health topics and to set goals and acheive them (I also nag ppl to death until they accomplish some goal that I've set for them, LOL).

 

[MTTY05]

I was doing some late-night surfing and stumbled upon this website again. I was shocked that I even remembered my username and password. It's been nearly 2 years since I first posted this thread. I was 19 when I first posted here, I'm 21 now and still a virgin. I think I'll just have to come to grips with the fact that it's very unlikely that I'll ever get any, at least not for a long time due in part to the very unfavorable cirumstances I am in right now.

Although my lack of a romantic/sex life is unfortunate and pathetic, that isn't really a main concern of mine anymore. I want to go back to school this January but the problem is that I have no idea what I want to do with my life. I don't even have any hobbies or talents! Who the hell other than me doesn't have any talents??? I'd like to go back but I don't know if it's really worth it. I might just ***** it up like I did the first time. It's not like I'm a moron or anything (or maybe I am), I just have a knack for pissing away good opportunities, and would hate to do that all over again. But I don't want to continue living life as a failure and a disgrace. Help, please.

And do I really have a kite in my chart? I have tons of planets in Virgo, Neptune and Ascendant in Capricorn, and Jupiter in Aries. It looks a lot like a grand trine triangle, but I thought all three sides would have to be in the same element. I read something where it said my Jupiter Aries opposed my Pluto in Scorpio, but I don't really think Aries and Scorpio are exact oppositions.

And Ekim86, what you said hit so close to home that I had my hands over my mouth as I read it..."others may consider you cold, heartless and repellent, unless of course venus is recieving some other warmer aspects to modify her. It says that the native is usaully fastidious about people, which translates to "hard to please or high standards." And that there may be little development of the emotional nature. You don't lack magnetism but its a different kind of magnetism from that which is usually understood by that word. Very attractive speakers have this placement and that they can express emotion without really feeling it."

Any guidance anyone can offer would be appreciated.

 

[nejispirit]

Arian Maverick

One could say that I have "too much" Aries with the Ascendant, Sun, Moon, Mercury, and Venus all in this sign in the first house, but is this really the case? Although I associate myself strongly with this sign, I have other planets--including my chart ruler Mars--in Gemini, Capricorn, and Scorpio. Thus, extremely few people, if any, express the pure archetype of any particular sign.

Is it really possible that someone has more Aries in them than I, when it comes to personal planets/ASC !

I have an Aries sun, mercury, venus, moon...but a Virgo ascendant .

My chart ruler is of course Mercury, but of course we all have other planets in other signs, but as of how many- that's up to each individual and their "astrological makeup".

But, to whom this thread pertains to, perhaps one might have too many planets in one house- I have come across a Libran with "too many" 8th house planets, for he does not know how to "work" those energies properly yet, but for someone with a Virgo ascendant, I do not see any need to fret about having too many Virgo planets at least;

Sun, Mercury, Venus, Mars- you and I both have 4 personal planets of differing signs, mm I see they are in a stellium, very nice- my 8th house stellium is only 3 planets, not 4.

Just remember that the 8th house is not all "bad" as some people like to complain about it, for it brings both the good and bad, as any house can.

In combination with your 12th house Neptune (being Pisces's natural house and that being Pisces's planet) and your 8th house planets, I would say you would make an excellent counselor if you so choose (or anything in the Psychology field, research comes to mind when I think of Virgo so...); you and I of course are different in that you have Virgo planets and I have Aries, so I believe you would be able to detach more easily than I and give more "firm" advice when needed- fire can bring too many emotions when it comes to trying to detach, and with the 8th it only "tightens" the emotional grip at time, digging deeper and such... but with Virgo, you can step back and be "grounded".

 

[nejispirit]

I know, and I'm trying to be patient, but I'm so horny after all these years of not getting laid. I want sex and I want it NOW.

A relationship would be great too, but right now my main concern is at least to get laid as quickly as possible.

Oh fellow 8th houser, I know how that goes~

I've been in positions where I am not dating someone/whatever and I have needed sex, so I find a friend and we do things, and that's that.

Maybe having my stellium conj Lilith in the 8th only heightens that, or perhaps my stellium trine Uranus but either way, my idea of sex is quite different than some others .

 

[MarieCamery]

Hi fellow 8th stellium person, not a bad thing, being that you have so much Virgo in there. I kinda understand. Virgo rules my 8th, but I went through too much when I was younger, I wish I woulda or coulda held out. Other peoples resources offered?? I don't know, but having a full 8th you may wanna hang onto too many things & people to try and make anew. Some say the 8th is not sex its death. I have ended more things than made them anew. It is easier for me to end things, I am very cardinal SUN<MOON<AND ASC so yes, I begin things too.(but as far as relationships, I am hardly ever really the initiator). Do you hang onto relationships that are long done as well. I noticed that your mars and venus are very very close to your sun. Do you understand yourself in this respect? I am sure you have heard the saying be happy with yourself first and foremost. I really don't know the ruler of your chart has a hard square to your 8th, but so does mine (mine is from the 5th) . My ruler of the 8th is also in my 8th too. Wishing you to find that special someone who compliments your chart. It took me awhile but I did and its better than all the past "sex"I had.

 

[JUPITERASC]

The chart you linked to shows your Virgo stellium at the end of your first house--conjunct the second house cusp--and the eighth house contains no planets. Is this correct?

I recommend that you post your natal data here so I can create your chart using Astrodienst and post it here.

Arian Maverick

P.S. By the way, I don't like questions that ask if an individual has "too much" of any sign influence of house emphasis in any chart because I believe each of us is born with precisely the type and quantity of energies we need in this incarnation. One could say that I have "too much" Aries with the Ascendant, Sun, Moon, Mercury, and Venus all in this sign in the first house, but is this really the case? Although I associate myself strongly with this sign, I have other planets--including my chart ruler Mars--in Gemini, Capricorn, and Scorpio. Thus, extremely few people, if any, express the pure archetype of any particular sign.

Thanks, I appreciate it a lot. Here's my natal data:
Birthdate: August 27, 1987
Time: 5:05 PM
Place: Chicago, IL

I was doing some late-night surfing and stumbled upon this website again. I was shocked that I even remembered my username and password. It's been nearly 2 years since I first posted this thread. I was 19 when I first posted here, I'm 21 now and still a virgin. I think I'll just have to come to grips with the fact that it's very unlikely that I'll ever get any, at least not for a long time due in part to the very unfavorable cirumstances I am in right now.

Although my lack of a romantic/sex life is unfortunate and pathetic, that isn't really a main concern of mine anymore. I want to go back to school this January but the problem is that I have no idea what I want to do with my life. I don't even have any hobbies or talents! Who the hell other than me doesn't have any talents??? I'd like to go back but I don't know if it's really worth it. I might just ***** it up like I did the first time. It's not like I'm a moron or anything (or maybe I am), I just have a knack for pissing away good opportunities, and would hate to do that all over again. But I don't want to continue living life as a failure and a disgrace. Help, please.

And do I really have a kite in my chart? I have tons of planets in Virgo, Neptune and Ascendant in Capricorn, and Jupiter in Aries. It looks a lot like a grand trine triangle, but I thought all three sides would have to be in the same element. I read something where it said my Jupiter Aries opposed my Pluto in Scorpio, but I don't really think Aries and Scorpio are exact oppositions.

And Ekim86, what you said hit so close to home that I had my hands over my mouth as I read it..."others may consider you cold, heartless and repellent, unless of course venus is recieving some other warmer aspects to modify her. It says that the native is usaully fastidious about people, which translates to "hard to please or high standards." And that there may be little development of the emotional nature. You don't lack magnetism but its a different kind of magnetism from that which is usually understood by that word. Very attractive speakers have this placement and that they can express emotion without really feeling it."

Any guidance anyone can offer would be appreciated.