There's a guy that I've been friends with for years, occasionally with benefits. We know there's dynamite sexual chemistry , but for the first time, we're both in a place in our lives where we are free to pursue a relationship if we want. I know we both want it, but I'm a bit afraid of rose-colored glasses, so that's why I'm writing this here. I need another set of eyes (or more than one set of eyes ) to look at the astrology and see it from a fresh perspective.
I'm Natal_1, and I'm also the inside of the Synastry wheel.
In terms of synastry:
Sun/Moon/Chart Angles: our Suns are in an out-of-sign square that's less than 3 degrees from exact, my Sun is in an out-of-sign opposition with his Moon that is less than 6 degrees from exact, and my Moon is in a very-wide-orb-for-a-sextile with his Sun at 7 degrees precisely. Our Ascendants are sextile with a 4 degree orb. My Sun sextiles his Venus less than 4 degree orb, and his Moon opposes my Venus with less than a 6 degree orb. His IC (and his S. Node) is right between my Moon-Pluto conjunction. Kind of a mixed-bag, and probably not the easiest relationship I could pursue, but at least the Suns and Moons are talking to each other, and the same can be said for the Ascendants.
Venus/Mars: our Venuses and Marses (is that how you say it?) don't have any direct aspects with each other, except maybe his Venus conjunct my Mars with an orb of more than 12 degrees (and my MC between them, being less than 3 degrees from his Venus and 9 degrees from my Mars). But, his Venus and my Mars are both in Cancer, and his Leo Mars is in a compatible sign for my Gemini Venus, even if there isn't an actual sextile between them. Again, the compatibility seems to be there, if not in high levels.
Mercuries: My Mercury is opposed by his Moon less than 2 degrees, squared by his Sun by 5 degrees, and trine his Jupiter less than 5 degrees. His Mercury plugs into my natal Yod, creating the double yod in the synastry (pointing to Gemini and Capricorn). This entails the following aspects within 1.5 degree orb: square to my Pluto, sextile my Jupiter, quincunx my Saturn-Neptune. There's also a sextile to my Venus with a 4 degree orb, and a square to my Moon with a more than 6 degree orb.
Saturn: I'm concerned this is the problem. There's not a lot of Saturn in our synastry. Other than the quincunx between my Saturn and his Mercury (not exactly the most stable aspect), the only other aspect is 7 degree orb opposition between his Saturn and my Sun. Is that enough to hold for the long term? Maybe the Composite and Davison can give it some glue, but there's just not a heavy component of Saturn in either. The only thing that stands out is Saturn right on the IC in both Composite and Davison; could that be the solid foundation for the relationship?
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Any contributions would be appreciated!
I'm Natal_1, and I'm also the inside of the Synastry wheel.
In terms of synastry:
Sun/Moon/Chart Angles: our Suns are in an out-of-sign square that's less than 3 degrees from exact, my Sun is in an out-of-sign opposition with his Moon that is less than 6 degrees from exact, and my Moon is in a very-wide-orb-for-a-sextile with his Sun at 7 degrees precisely. Our Ascendants are sextile with a 4 degree orb. My Sun sextiles his Venus less than 4 degree orb, and his Moon opposes my Venus with less than a 6 degree orb. His IC (and his S. Node) is right between my Moon-Pluto conjunction. Kind of a mixed-bag, and probably not the easiest relationship I could pursue, but at least the Suns and Moons are talking to each other, and the same can be said for the Ascendants.
Venus/Mars: our Venuses and Marses (is that how you say it?) don't have any direct aspects with each other, except maybe his Venus conjunct my Mars with an orb of more than 12 degrees (and my MC between them, being less than 3 degrees from his Venus and 9 degrees from my Mars). But, his Venus and my Mars are both in Cancer, and his Leo Mars is in a compatible sign for my Gemini Venus, even if there isn't an actual sextile between them. Again, the compatibility seems to be there, if not in high levels.
Mercuries: My Mercury is opposed by his Moon less than 2 degrees, squared by his Sun by 5 degrees, and trine his Jupiter less than 5 degrees. His Mercury plugs into my natal Yod, creating the double yod in the synastry (pointing to Gemini and Capricorn). This entails the following aspects within 1.5 degree orb: square to my Pluto, sextile my Jupiter, quincunx my Saturn-Neptune. There's also a sextile to my Venus with a 4 degree orb, and a square to my Moon with a more than 6 degree orb.
Saturn: I'm concerned this is the problem. There's not a lot of Saturn in our synastry. Other than the quincunx between my Saturn and his Mercury (not exactly the most stable aspect), the only other aspect is 7 degree orb opposition between his Saturn and my Sun. Is that enough to hold for the long term? Maybe the Composite and Davison can give it some glue, but there's just not a heavy component of Saturn in either. The only thing that stands out is Saturn right on the IC in both Composite and Davison; could that be the solid foundation for the relationship?
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Any contributions would be appreciated!