This is my chart

[blackroses96]

This is my chart it's accurate the time of birth to the very minute.

I'd just like to know am I being rational worrying about infertility or not having children at all? Also if you could please give me an advice on how id improve my life or develop better skills that would be great. I am feeling very anxious about everything and I wish I had someone to talk to about my fertility fears. I'm appreciative for any advice or tips thank you.

 

[curiousabout77]

Hello blackrose,
Transit uranus as ruler of your first house of going for what you want is squaring your natal venus which rules your 4th house for being a mother. Maybe this is why your thinking about motherhood. This transit last for another year so I think you will be thinking about it a lot more until then.

 

[blackroses96]

Okay thank you

 

[Ecliptique]

Hello blackroses96,

it is always a very good thing to have the precise time of a birth.

I hope that through your stars in the twelfth house, you will end up finding any solution favorable to the love and interest that you want people to show you.

You still currently have the transit from Mars in Gemini to Saturn by square...

To help you, I would mention the landmark transit of Jupiter in Taurus to natal Sun from the second half of 2023 in the hope that you will be loved for the realization of what you aspire to. You will tend to really take to heart what you want to do and this will lead you to be recognized in relation to the problem that arises in order to promote the relationship with the other. Maybe you will tell us some good news.

Ecliptique.

 

[blackroses96]

Funny thing about that another astrologer mentioned that around October I will have a new relationship. I have my doubts but am willing to at least work on myself so that at least being alone isn't unbearable and I feel worthy.

 

[carabas]

Hi BR
Your paranoia is perhaps due to the fact that you see the Moon in h5 opposite the Sun and Jupiter,
but they are not related to having children, but rather to the Partner with whom to have them, and the relationships with any children.

Maybe you can meet a man who doesn't want children,
or you don't want to have a partner, or ask a friend or donor to have a child.

The Sun, however, first represents you.
Perhaps the opposition with the Moon expresses a conflict between the desire to live a free life,
which motherhood inevitably limits, and then you "invented" that you could be sterile, which would painfully resolve the issue.

That massive stellium in Capricorn and Aquarius rising, your controlling Saturn side is very strong,
but it doesn't control the Moon at all, which is in the sign that most strongly expresses motherhood.

In short, may be there is a bit of a mess to fix first of all within yourself.

Anyway
Pregnancies typically involve relationships of/with 3 planets: Moon, Venus, and Mercury, the 5th house.

Mercury and Venus are ruled by Uranus.
and the fact that Mercury ruler of H5 is in H12 and almost conjunct Uranus can mean that there is
any medicalization of the process, as you have already said you want to conserve the ova and you are doing WELL ).

You do what you can, then life always has much more imagination than us.

BEST

 

[blackroses96]

I definitely do have conflict within between travelling the world with my partner and having children in the future. I wish I could have both but anyway I'm gonna see if there's any infertility and also try and figure out if there a health reason for the stink I have which I won't go into detail because it's TMI

 

[ScorpioMaria]

Dear Vanessa, please try not to worry.

You have a very good chart overall, nearly perfect, except for the Sun-Moon opposition and the weak Jupiter-Moon opposition. There is a higher than usual chance of romantic problems and fertility problems/miscarriage.

Your anxiety has to do with your Sun-Moon opposition. You have a strong Moon in Cancer in the 5th house; you are very romantic, you want to be a lover and a mother, you want to have a baby. At the same time, your Sun in Capricorn in the 12th house wants to withdraw from the world and be left alone. This internal conflict will be with you for your entire life. Yet do not despair; both motherhood and the quiet life can be accomplished together. The earlier part of your life should focus on motherhood, and the later part of your life should focus on the quiet life, teaching life lessons to your adolescent child.

If you are unable to have children, you may try to adopt, or you may accumulate animals such as dogs and cats, especially cats in old age. You may accumulate animals even if you have children. You are naturally caring and compassionate, and the maternal instinct is strong.

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By the way, I am 31, and I have been infertile for my entire adult life. Otherwise, everything has always been normal down there, no problems. I have never used birth control, I have sex often. I have an empty 5th house.

 

[ScorpioMaria]

Again, you have a very good chart overall.

You will probably have a modest, quiet life. You will not be rich, but you will probably have great blessings and deep wisdom in late life. You are pleasant, well liked, and a good communicator, especially about life lessons, especially later in life.

My book says you are "very independent, coolly friendly, a private person." Possible careers include "geologist, mineralogist, scientific research, orthopaedic medicine, astronomy." Physical hobbies include "athletics, gliding, skiing, yoga." General hobbies include "archaeology, science, pet birds." Creative hobbies include "modern dance, Japanese flower arranging, crochet, model engineering."

Just try to reconcile/combine your compassionate maternal instincts with your practical yet very private personality.

 

[blackroses96]

Yeah I'm just sad about the people I've dated in the past
Like I haven't been treated very nice by guys have I
I deserve so much more
But no one has ever fought for me
Like I just get overlooked because of my mental illness no one wants me
I just feel like i will never be enough or wanted for who I am
I just think why bother no one wants me
They think I'm damaged

I just want to know why no one wants me?

 

[ScorpioMaria]

Dear Vanessa, your full 12th house suggests you will have a somewhat lonely, somewhat melancholy, reclusive, quiet life.
Though you seem to be very interested in speaking, reading, writing, and dreaming. Perhaps you are very creative in some way.
The 12th house is often not very useful or helpful for young people, but you may experience great blessings in late life.
You will be very moody and suffer from your very caring emotions throughout life. Please find a way to channel your emotions positively.
Go outside, go to the beach, swim, walk, meditate, pray, talk to someone, sleep well, eat healthy and eat enough, and your emotional state will improve.

How tall are you? How much do you weigh? Are you healthy aside from your mental illness? You probably had problems with your mother and father. With more detail, I can give you much better advice about your present and your future.

You are still young, but you seem very sad. You have so much potential, you are so valuable, maybe you don't know it yet.
Someone, somewhere, wants you.

Are you in a relationship? If so, what is your partner's date of birth? We can assess the relationship and any of its problems.

 

[blackroses96]

I have attention deficit disorder and PTSD caused by my upbringing. I am 155cm and weigh 77 kgs I am still obese but I am at least 7kg lighter than I was before. I am single..My attention deficit disorder meant that I had to leave many courses I think 5 in total, which meant I had that same repeated failure 5 years in a row which has really taken all strength and motivation to overcome. I am currently studying but feel like I am disposable because of my problems.

 

[ScorpioMaria]

The sun-moon opposition suggests conflict between and conflict with father and mother. The result is mental illness and emotional problems resulting in obesity. Your father did not teach you about men, and your mother did not give you good advice either. It's not your fault.

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[Osamenor]

All,

Forum rules require the following:

1. Respect of other members is expected at all times. No talking down to, being rude, dismissing of people, trying to shut someone down if they don't agree, or passive aggressively drawing people out to respond negatively.

Commenting on someone's body is EXTREMELY disrespectful. Giving weight loss advice, advice on someone's sex life, or advice on religious practice to someone who hasn't asked you for it is EXTREMELY disrespectful.

2. Stay on topic. In astrological threads, that means all advice given MUST be backed up with astrological reasoning. If you don't have an astrological reason for saying what you're saying, don't post in an astrological thread.

I've deleted a number of posts that violated those rules, or were responses to posts that violated those rules. If you see rule violations happening, what we need you to do is report it, not respond. Responding only fans the flames. Handling rule violations is what moderators are for.

If someone's bothering you, you also have the option of adding them to your ignore list. Then you won't see their posts.

Keep it respectful,
Osamenor

 

[ScorpioMaria]

All,

Forum rules require the following:

1. Respect of other members is expected at all times. No talking down to, being rude, dismissing of people, trying to shut someone down if they don't agree, or passive aggressively drawing people out to respond negatively.

Commenting on someone's body is EXTREMELY disrespectful. Giving weight loss advice, advice on someone's sex life, or advice on religious practice to someone who hasn't asked you for it is EXTREMELY disrespectful.

2. Stay on topic. In astrological threads, that means all advice given MUST be backed up with astrological reasoning. If you don't have an astrological reason for saying what you're saying, don't post in an astrological thread.

I've deleted a number of posts that violated those rules, or were responses to posts that violated those rules. If you see rule violations happening, what we need you to do is report it, not respond. Responding only fans the flames. Handling rule violations is what moderators are for.

If someone's bothering you, you also have the option of adding them to your ignore list. Then you won't see their posts.

Keep it respectful,
Osamenor

I understand what you're saying, you're right

I won't give any advice aside from astrology, even if the person badly needs help that an astrological forum cannot provide

The weight issue and mental health issue and resulting poor health and low life expectancy are strongly implied by the chart

 

[ScorpioMaria]

I'm so sorry blackroses, please forgive me, I'm praying for you, I didn't mean to hurt you

 

[blackroses96]

It's okay I understand you worry my family says it a lot to me so it's very painful but I am working on actively. I already have lost 7kgs I hope to continue on my journey it's okay. I'm not mad at you I just felt a bit caught off guard. I understand your angle and I didn't mean to act rashly either. I just have a tendency to get defensive when I feel attacked it wasn't personal. It's just something I need to be more aware of.

 

[Osamenor]

Folks, it's great that apologies are going around, but now please take them to private Conversation if you have anything more to say. Let the thread be an astrology thread.

 

[Osamenor]

The weight issue and mental health issue and resulting poor health and low life expectancy are strongly implied by the chart

In that case, you need to specify what you see in the chart that implies that.

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