Ukpoohbear
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I love the idea of a massage being about moving energy from one chakra to another. I’m going to have to Google/YouTube about that.
I’ve done similar before when I used to meditate and would focus on a particular chakra that needed healing, it was the root chakra and sacral chakra I focused on at the time. To do with grounding and self-esteem. Also, Sunrise and Sunset being the best time to do a meditation on the Sacral Chakra, so I would go a walk and plan it so I reached a bench that was at the top of a hill in time for sunset (never managed a sunrise one but I should do that this Summer!)
My love language is acts of service and gifts. I notice I do this with friends and lovers and in the two major relationships I had, they instinctively knew I loved gifts. Probably because they saw how happy it made me or they reciprocated when I gave them gifts. The best gifts were one with sentimental meaning behind it, like one boyfriend bought me a charm bracelet and would buy me a charm randomly.
Looking out for the other person’s love language by noticing what they do for you is a way to discover someone’s love language, I’m going to consciously look out for it next time I meet someone.
If someone’s love language was physical touch, I don’t know if I would find that too intense 24/7. Cuddling is nice but PDA and even constant physical reassurance?
I switch between an anxious attachment style to being avoidant, sometimes space is good but they key is communicating what it is I need. If someone has a secure attachment style, they wouldnt take it personally, which is why this attachment style should be paired with an anxious and an avoidant.
An anxious and an avoidant are usually the ones attracted to each other though cos if someone is avoidant, it makes the anxious person want them more and the avoidant person likes the attention. When an anxious and avoidant are paired together, it causes a ‘runner-chaser dynamic,’ and it rarely ever works long-term. Both types need to have worked on themselves enough to be aware they need to be more like a secure.
But you know, a secure type seems boring to me, so I’m still stuck in the phase of being attracted to the wrong type of person. 🙊🙈
I’ve done similar before when I used to meditate and would focus on a particular chakra that needed healing, it was the root chakra and sacral chakra I focused on at the time. To do with grounding and self-esteem. Also, Sunrise and Sunset being the best time to do a meditation on the Sacral Chakra, so I would go a walk and plan it so I reached a bench that was at the top of a hill in time for sunset (never managed a sunrise one but I should do that this Summer!)
My love language is acts of service and gifts. I notice I do this with friends and lovers and in the two major relationships I had, they instinctively knew I loved gifts. Probably because they saw how happy it made me or they reciprocated when I gave them gifts. The best gifts were one with sentimental meaning behind it, like one boyfriend bought me a charm bracelet and would buy me a charm randomly.
Looking out for the other person’s love language by noticing what they do for you is a way to discover someone’s love language, I’m going to consciously look out for it next time I meet someone.
If someone’s love language was physical touch, I don’t know if I would find that too intense 24/7. Cuddling is nice but PDA and even constant physical reassurance?
I switch between an anxious attachment style to being avoidant, sometimes space is good but they key is communicating what it is I need. If someone has a secure attachment style, they wouldnt take it personally, which is why this attachment style should be paired with an anxious and an avoidant.
An anxious and an avoidant are usually the ones attracted to each other though cos if someone is avoidant, it makes the anxious person want them more and the avoidant person likes the attention. When an anxious and avoidant are paired together, it causes a ‘runner-chaser dynamic,’ and it rarely ever works long-term. Both types need to have worked on themselves enough to be aware they need to be more like a secure.
But you know, a secure type seems boring to me, so I’m still stuck in the phase of being attracted to the wrong type of person. 🙊🙈