He does get concerned when she cries. He has scolded me before for scolding her. If shes in a bad mood crying he will quickly cheer her up.
He is a single father to his 14 year old daughter. He has a 1 year old that he adores. His oldest daughters mother was on drugs and in and out of jail. He went to family court and fought hard to get custody of his daughter when she was born and he won. She has been with him since.
This is a man who texts and calls his daughter every morning to tell her he loves her. He is no pedophile.
Just because a step child is not related by blood doesnt mean anything bad. All because if some stupid asteroid.
Lots of people have step fathers and step mothers.
Uncles, brothers, and even friends abuse people too.
This man always wants to make sure i have milk and bread and food for my daughter. If we need he will go buy it.
Something her real father could care less for.
Im not submissive in relationships. I didnt grow up with a father and will not tolerate any man telling me what to do thats for sure.
None if my exs were ever dominant.
I have bad aspects in my chart too dont we all?
My friend told me he has the chart of a serial killer yet is the complete opposite.
I read an old post about a woman wanting to see her compatibility with her father and rahu again speaking about sexual feelings. Another astrologer had to warn him that he was going into dangerous territiry saying things like that and that he ought to be more careful.
Aspects play different roles in famy/relationship astrology.
According to my boyfriends natal he is a cold hearted abusive man.
He is the complete opposite. He is very affectionate and loving. Never says no to anyone. Hates when people are sad. Never raises his voice unless hes making a loud joke.
Maybe being abused as a child, losing his father at a young age, and watching his brother blow his brains out with a gun taught him to be a better person.
He gets sad sometimes because he feels bad for his 14 year old not having a mother anymore.
She died from cancer.
I get sad because my daughter doesnt have her real father.
Hi Sweet Starz, I never said he would be abusive and I think is a very steep thing to say without knowing his history and him personally. I give an example that I have 2 twins sisters, much older than me, their DNA is the same also. But one is kind, a Buddhist monk who dreams of going to a monastery, she donates money to everybody freely and without regrets, she doesnt judge people and she forgave and love my father when he divorced her mom. The other is a money grubber, judge her own daughter, judge based on how much money a person has, is prejudiced, racist, and never forgave my father when he divorced her mom and never wanted to come to talk to him or let him talk to her. She is a very sad, harsh person, and very unhappy with marriage, very tense and non spiritual person.
Both are good with making money, both are climbing the corporate world, with good jobs, but their approach to life couldnt be more opposite and they have the exact same chart for 2-5 min of difference, born in the same room and with the same genes. So I dont even think genetics alone can explain or predict if someone is abusive/murderer/evil/greedy, so on. That`s impossible.
What I said was in objective point of view on the limits of what astrology can give in my opinion and experience and personal experience too based on a neutral evaluation of aspects. I knew he was very attentive to your child emotion, and he has sun in 10th house conjunct saturn, indicates he is a serious responsible man, venus in cancer in 10th and mercury too conjunct is also means he can be a sweet person and care about home and family as important. My husband has this positioning and he is not a serial killer.
Venus in cancer, mars in pisces, moon in virgo, why would that mean a serial killer? My mom has mars in pisces, sun in pisces, moon in virgo, do you think she is a serial killer? She is a cute lady that prays everyday, very religious, but very tolerant, didnt even spanked kids when we were kid. She has pity of the dog that pees on wrong places, cant punish nobody, but herself and accepts all sufferings without anger of anyone. It makes me angry when I see it and I even said she should be more active and assertive, but is who she is, what can we do.
People shouldnt be so judgmental in such a serious matter. But also if something is possible to go wrong (POSSIBLE, not necessarily real) you should be aware of it too, for safety. He sounds like a man responsible man to his family and at least is the face he tries to show to the world, who passed/will pass for difficulties and intense emotions. He can be very critical when suffering emotionally, a control freak, and probably also manipulative, a little weak on action/ doesn't take action quickly when needed, but I wouldn't go to the limit of saying he is a serial killer. Just watch your kid and him, open your eyes and look to be not deluded but that`s valid for any stranger we open our doors too, like you said, be it a friend, a relative, a partner.
Is my opinion, of course. Good luck for you and your family. I hope you, your daughter and your partner be happy and solve your problems in the most emotional fulfilling way.
AQ7