South Node conjunct Venus in synastry but not composite?

Firstly, random question, do you look to True node or mean Node in synastry?

Secondly my bf and I have South Node conjunct venus in synastry but it’s not aspected at all in composite not Davison. I know it says South node person usually out grows the Venus type energy of the other person but what if it’s not in the composite? I know not one aspect can determine anything but Does that generally change the direction of the relationship in that regard?

Oh and then I have SN conjunct sun in composite but NN conjunct sun in Davison I’m just confused lol.
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