misskitty
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I know, I know! I'm one of the biggest proponents of NOT asking questions about sex in astrology because the questions could be considered trivial. But please hear me out...
I reconnected with an old boyfriend of mine via email about a month ago. We dated when we were really young, I was 17, he was 21. He moved with his family to another state after we only dated for a couple of months, so we really didn't get very far in our relationship.
20 YEARS later, we've reconnected. We've seemed to pick up where we left off and have spent countless hours on the phone with each other, emailing, writing letters. He is coming to visit me in a couple of weeks.
My worry, and something that is actually keeping me up at night, is whether or not we will be attracted to each other after all these years. Let's face it, neither of us looks 17 or 21 anymore!! Will the spark still be there?? The emotional component of our relationship was and IS still amazing. But attraction? I surely hope so. My solar return hints at a big relationship this year (venus/mars/sun on my descendant), and I just wonder if this might be it.
My instinct says to look at Venus and Mars in the synastry chart. My Venus is in an exact trine to his Mars. That makes me feel better. However, my Venus opposes his Venus. I know the theory in astrology about opposites attracting (and our Suns are in opposition by sign), but does that hold up between Venus too?
His Saturn is right on my Venus, which would either put a damper on it OR it could be lending stability to the relationship. Maybe both?
I like the trine between my Venus and his Pluto as well, although that could point to an obsessive quality to the attraction.
My Moon trines his Sun and his Descendant falls in my 7th house, I think that is good.
Can someone help me with this? I'm afraid I don't have a ton of experience with synastry, but I feel it is more appropriate to answer this question with this method rather than Horary.
I reconnected with an old boyfriend of mine via email about a month ago. We dated when we were really young, I was 17, he was 21. He moved with his family to another state after we only dated for a couple of months, so we really didn't get very far in our relationship.
20 YEARS later, we've reconnected. We've seemed to pick up where we left off and have spent countless hours on the phone with each other, emailing, writing letters. He is coming to visit me in a couple of weeks.
My worry, and something that is actually keeping me up at night, is whether or not we will be attracted to each other after all these years. Let's face it, neither of us looks 17 or 21 anymore!! Will the spark still be there?? The emotional component of our relationship was and IS still amazing. But attraction? I surely hope so. My solar return hints at a big relationship this year (venus/mars/sun on my descendant), and I just wonder if this might be it.
My instinct says to look at Venus and Mars in the synastry chart. My Venus is in an exact trine to his Mars. That makes me feel better. However, my Venus opposes his Venus. I know the theory in astrology about opposites attracting (and our Suns are in opposition by sign), but does that hold up between Venus too?
His Saturn is right on my Venus, which would either put a damper on it OR it could be lending stability to the relationship. Maybe both?
I like the trine between my Venus and his Pluto as well, although that could point to an obsessive quality to the attraction.
My Moon trines his Sun and his Descendant falls in my 7th house, I think that is good.
Can someone help me with this? I'm afraid I don't have a ton of experience with synastry, but I feel it is more appropriate to answer this question with this method rather than Horary.
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