Relationship problem

sh3r_sh3r

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I’d love to ask for some support, can anyone help me to interpret this two (synastry and composite) chart. I just broke up with my gal recently, is there any chances for us to reconnect back and when will be the best time. Is there any future for us. Thanks a million.
 

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sh3r_sh3r

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Actually both of us still in middle school. There's some misunderstanding between us, yet my feeling towards her is still strong. It's our very first relationship for both us, there's a chemistry in us which made us fall in love very quickly. She gave me the feelings that she is not ready to commit. She did once told me before I'm too over-protecting and controlling her. Ever since she started to lost interested in me. I'm quite devastated, she's kind of important to me. Is there any chance for us to reconcile, I don't wish to give up our relationship despite both of us have some good aspects like :

Moon Opposition Venus
Mars Trine Moon
Moon Sextile Sun
Ascendant Conjunction Sun
Sun Trine Ascendant
Moon Conjunction Saturn
Moon Parallel Venus
Venus Sextile Venus
Venus Opposition Ascendant
Saturn Opposition Ascendant

Really appreciate your help.
 

waybread

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Probably she recognized that you both have some growing up to do before making an exclusive commitment.

The Venus aspects look nice but we cannot say much without looking at the actual horoscopes. And then synastry (chart comparisons) look at compatibility. They're not so useful for predictive purposes.

If she's pulled away from you, there really is no relationship for you to keep or give up.

Probably the best thing to do is to stay friends without trying to make it more than that.
 

sh3r_sh3r

Member
Probably she recognized that you both have some growing up to do before making an exclusive commitment.

The Venus aspects look nice but we cannot say much without looking at the actual horoscopes. And then synastry (chart comparisons) look at compatibility. They're not so useful for predictive purposes.

If she's pulled away from you, there really is no relationship for you to keep or give up.

Probably the best thing to do is to stay friends without trying to make it more than that.
Thank you for interpreting, may I know what you mean by actual horoscopes. From what I understand is mine is Gemini (DOB 9 June 2007) and her is Virgo (BOB 29 Aug 2008). And do you need any other information.

I do loves to stay as friends with her as I know that she is not ready yet, but currently she avoiding me and even block the contact. Is there any ways for her to open up towards me and when will it be. I also noticed that we had Sun Sextile Moon and Sun Conjunction Ascendant fall in my House 7th, will it be a better chances for us.

My plan is to be friends with her and slowly rebuild our relationship along the way when we grow till she ready for commitment.
 
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waybread

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Your birth time, date and location are used to construct horoscopes. The location is also important because it will affect the time zone and house cusps.

A horoscope is also called a chart. A birth chart is essentially a very stylized map of the heavens at one's birth moment. You can construct charts without birth times, but you lose a lot of interpretive value.

I recommend that you look at the free charts pages at Astrodienst www.astro.com and construct your birth chart.
 

waybread

Well-known member
I think you've found areas of compatibility, but then just assume that the others are not points of contact or might be stressful.

If she broke things off with you, is avoiding you, and blocked you, I think you have to accept that. Let her go for now, so that you can stay positive about all of the other areas of your life.
 
Waybread has done a great contribution.

The upside of your union together is that you both could support each other on your spiritual path together with Pisces North Node and Aquarius, however you are both here to solve your troubles with rebellion also you both have highly squared off Uranus aspects that would make it hard even to handle yourself let alone a relationship. But bothn of you could learna great deal from each other if you learn how to handle differences in expression.

The North Node in Aqua is highly intellectual in an emotional sense, Virgo South Node could lend quite a few characteristics to a Leo South Node to help with Mercurial tasks for sure.
 
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