Relationship help



I feel like I have problems with relationships, I would really like to understand myself better and to work on my issues. Can someone explain to me my natal chart in terms of relationships? Thank you very much.

Planetary positions

Sun Sagittarius 29°55'18 in house 8 direct
Moon Taurus 20°49'57 in house 1 direct
Mercury Capricorn 18°45'33 in house 9 direct
Venus Sagittarius 5°20'18 in house 7 direct
Mars Virgo 25°25'13 in house 6 direct
Jupiter Capricorn 22°46'27 end of house 9 direct
Saturn Aries 0°54'08 in house 12 direct
Uranus Aquarius 2°42'30 in house 10 direct
Neptune Capricorn 26°27'10 in house 10 direct
Pluto Sagittarius 4°01'04 in house 7 direct
True Node Libra 4°05'39 in house 6 retrograde
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You do have taurus on the ascendent, with the moon, which is not necessarily an outgoing sign, its on the timid side and fixed in its ways, although warm, sincere and comforting.
So it's difficult for you to be outgoing towards others.
The 7th ruler of relationships is mars, in another timid sign, virgo.
These two important points clash with your late sagittarius sun, with the moon inconjunct and mars in square.
Fundamentally, your individual identity, which is fun, flirty and adventurous sag is in conflict with your actions (serious virgo, detailed, critical, health conscious) and the way you present yourself to others (taurus ascendent and moon).
So, what happens is that you attract others who see you one way, and you turn out differently from what you seem once they get to know you.
Also, the steady taurus and the gentle virgo suffer a friction from the sag sun, you can be irritable and testy towards others.
Before you can form lasting relationships with others you have to know yourself better, and work out who you are and what type of persons you want to be with.