From a technical view, your sensitive common point in your couple is triggered by saturn now.
Your Neptune 4°33 sagittarius (that is receiving forward and backward motion of saturn) and her moon 4°25 libra.
Saturn is now retro, making a final climax contact on your radical Neptune the 4 april 2015.
(The same aspect will happens a last time on november)
More can be said of course, but I don't have the time right now.
Other members will surely give you good advices.
What have you do the saturday 21 feb 2015? is there any chance that your wife don't trust you for that ?