Moondancing
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And run the risk of having my lips stuck to my car? lolI hope you kissed your car too.
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uranianplutonian
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Interesting. I wonder what a hidden enemy would look like in synastry.
uranianplutonian
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Gotta take risks in love, right? 😏
Moondancing
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My sister would be an example. Four planets, Mars, Venus, Saturn, Neptune. Saturn rules my third house of siblings. As much as I did not want to think of my sister as my enemy, reality kept confronting me with her betrayals. My brother was born 2 days before Putin and has the same 4 planets in my 12. Never have felt him an enemy but given our family history, there is deep sadness and anguish between all of us that remain secret and keep us isolated from each other.
uranianplutonian
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What aspects show up in your synastry chart with your sister? 😲
Moondancing
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I don't know her time of birth.
uranianplutonian
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Me: *On the forum on my phone*
My cat: *Kneading on my stomach* *Starts getting comfy and tries sitting on my phone while I’m using it*
Me: ‘I don’t think that’s going to work.’
My cat: *Continues kneading* *Tail swishing across my screen as she continues to try to sit on it*
My cat: *Kneading on my stomach* *Starts getting comfy and tries sitting on my phone while I’m using it*
Me: ‘I don’t think that’s going to work.’
My cat: *Continues kneading* *Tail swishing across my screen as she continues to try to sit on it*
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uranianplutonian
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Aspects in ~general. 😅 Anything harsh to the inners?
Moondancing
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No. My inners aspect her outer planets but they are all separating. One in particular I remember well. Mercury square her Pluto. She found out I was studying Buddhism and she went on a tyrant preaching to me and sending me letters with evidence that I was in a cult. Guess she cared but couldn't shake the feeling she was not listening to me.
Strange not having aspects, I don't know what to make of it. Any ideas? My aspects must be to her Asc. MC and Moon. Her Moon is place in Scorpio so that no matter what time of day she was born it remains in Scorpio but not sure of aspects.
uranianplutonian
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Would be interesting to see your synastry chart. 😌
No aspects seems scattered to me. No direct energy to ground the two people. Technically, there are still aspects, just aspects that haven’t been studied much.
Opal
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Twelfth hidden enemies. Neptune.
For me it is my adopted sister, also a Libra, and represented with Chiron in the 3rd.
Ukpoohbear
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My sister was my hidden enemy too. No longer in contact.
Isn’t it funny that’s 3 of us with the same issue. How unfortunate to be born into a family of past-life enemies 😬
Isn’t it funny that’s 3 of us with the same issue. How unfortunate to be born into a family of past-life enemies 😬
Opal
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Astrologically say it🌞please
uranianplutonian
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I’d jump in front of a bullet for my sister. I’m the protective older sister. If anyone messes with my sister and I find out, they will regret it. I’ll be watching out for her until the day I die.
I’ll be Moondancing, Opal, and you’s sister. 😌 I’ll be the cool sister you didn’t have.
Moondancing
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Now you make me cry! That's the way I was with my little sister and hoped it always would be.
Ukpoohbear
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Afflicted Mercury connected to the 12th house.
Ukpoohbear
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Thanks @uranianplutonian 
I was the same with my sister, I naturally would do anything to protect her but as I grew older, I was almost in denial but then could no longer deny, not only would she not do the same for me but she had been covertly attacking me. 🤷♀️
Actually, I think it’s a phenomenon that needs fo be talked about more - that the family dynamic can be murderous and the victim can die from the in-house bullying. It’s Narc territory.
I was the same with my sister, I naturally would do anything to protect her but as I grew older, I was almost in denial but then could no longer deny, not only would she not do the same for me but she had been covertly attacking me. 🤷♀️ Actually, I think it’s a phenomenon that needs fo be talked about more - that the family dynamic can be murderous and the victim can die from the in-house bullying. It’s Narc territory.
Opal
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Mine is very much like this. Family is mad at me, say I should get over “it”. I figure when you discover at your fathers funeral, just how detrimental her lying was and is, and always will be, you have the right to take toxic waste out of your life. Apparently not in my family.Thanks @uranianplutonian
Actually, I think it’s a phenomenon that needs fo be talked about more - that the family dynamic can be murderous and the victim can die from the in-house bullying. It’s Narc territory.
Bye, bye, bye!!!
uranianplutonian
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I saw your post in your Sisters synastry thread. I hope one day she’ll apologize and reconcile with you. Life is too short. If not, then her loss…
uranianplutonian
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That sounds like a lot to deal with… Likely some serious projecting from her.Thanks @uranianplutonian
Actually, I think it’s a phenomenon that needs fo be talked about more - that the family dynamic can be murderous and the victim can die from the in-house bullying. It’s Narc territory.
Family dynamics can be detrimental. I think it starts with the parents and how they treated each child. Whether they treated each child equally makes a big difference. There’s a part of my family - some of my great aunts and uncles -where this kind of ~toxic dynamic exists. I believe it came from the competitive environment they grew up in. As they grow older, it seems like they’re getting better, but still, it’s sad to see. We all use to get together, and now we don’t because of it.