This is too difficult too read. Looking at 2 separate charts and doing a synastry is too time consuming and you can easily make mistakes. What I need is a synastry chart where the 2 charts are merged into one chart (with inner wheel and outer wheel). You have to choose 'synastry' in the chart options at astro.com
Hi their, your ascendant is trine his Jupiter which is fortunate. Also your 7th house deals with relationships and you both have Venus conjunct Venus which is fortunate.
Mars square Venus in both your charts I guess means their is probably a lot of anger or resentment towards both of you from outside the relationship or/and arguments/ anger in relationships while you were growing up.
You have Sun in Scorpio so your probably fixed in your ways while he has Sun in Libra and is good at starting things anew.
Progress your Sun 1 degree for every year of your life and you'll find your Sun is conjunct Pluto in your chart ( Pluto is synchronicity) meetings that are mean't to happen.
A progressed chart would be. Move the Sun forward 1 degree for every year of your life. So age 1 your Sun would be 6 degrees Scorpio, age 2 would be 7 degrees and so on. at age 21 the Sun would be almost exact Pluto.
In my opinion the Ascendant is the most important point in a chart so look at how your Ascendant interacts with the planets in his chart.
I noticed that your Aries Ascendant is in opposition to his Libra Sun (individuality)This would probably be something you'd need to work on.