My year so far. I expected to be hired as a permanent employee during last September. My employer gave false information and hired me for a new short-term job. (after which the employment should have become permanent.)
I had received a grant last spring, which I was supposed to stay on at some point in the next three years (like sabbatical year). That is a generally accepted practice at my workplace. However, the employer decided to terminate my vacancy temporarily. i.e. punish me for getting a grant and imagined that I would then come back with a lower salary and no benefits after that. During my new short employment, it was intended to organize the matter so, that I would school others to do my work ..this happened 11 days after the start of the new employment. So I was really cheated. I wouldn't have left now bc everything has become more expensive worldwide due to the war by Russia. And grant is smaller than salary.
I gave my 2 weeks notice, had to fight for benefits from government. I got a statement from the union's lawyer that there was a good reason for my leave and luckily that matter was taken care of. Now the lawyer is filing a claim against my previous employer regarding misconduct. Terrible heavy autumn on an emotional level. although when I left my work, it has also had a positive effect on my health.
I have tried to lose weight because I want a child. I just went to talk to the doctor and they won't accept me for treatment because I'm overweight. somewhere I should find the strength to lose +30 kg of weight. I was using Ozempic, but it's hard to get at the moment. a good start in weight loss was lost because of that. And there is time limit, no treatments after one turns 40. ( private sector is option after that, and it’s so expensive)
Im addition, I have mourned a “relationship” that ended last spring. it wasn't even a real relationship, it was just a person who pondered for two years whether he wanted to be with me or not. He chose his children over me. Now, maybe, I'm starting to be on the better side of it. It feels really hard that there is no one in my life who wants to share it. There is overweight issue, there is depression and dreams that threaten not to come true.