makeupch1c3
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Hey everyone! I met this guy around four months ago and it felt like a dream, he was literally perfect. Yet of course, the honeymoon phase has wandered away and we've started having our issues.
Recently he was honest with me and confessed that he hates shopping and spending money which is why he's been in a bad mood whenever we go out. But when the relationship first started, he was adamant about taking care of me, spoiling me, constantly getting things randomly or asking what I wanted... Yet a month or two later he's telling me the opposite? He also mentioned that the reason he lied and was hiding it from me was because of his pride and he didn't want me to leave him.
Now, I'm not upset he can't buy me stuff or take me shopping, what im upset about is the fact that I feel like I got deceived. He made the relationship and himself seem like something it wasn't just to win me over? It's like I basically committed myself to a relationship that's not what I thought it was. When we first met he was also on track to entering the fire academy, yet now he changed his mind and decided to go back to school for another two years for a different career.
I posted our chart and the aspect table! Thanks everyone!!
Recently he was honest with me and confessed that he hates shopping and spending money which is why he's been in a bad mood whenever we go out. But when the relationship first started, he was adamant about taking care of me, spoiling me, constantly getting things randomly or asking what I wanted... Yet a month or two later he's telling me the opposite? He also mentioned that the reason he lied and was hiding it from me was because of his pride and he didn't want me to leave him.
Now, I'm not upset he can't buy me stuff or take me shopping, what im upset about is the fact that I feel like I got deceived. He made the relationship and himself seem like something it wasn't just to win me over? It's like I basically committed myself to a relationship that's not what I thought it was. When we first met he was also on track to entering the fire academy, yet now he changed his mind and decided to go back to school for another two years for a different career.
I posted our chart and the aspect table! Thanks everyone!!