Just looking at this:
There's a lot I'd like to add or comment on, but here Bob says: "Men (ignoring the Sun) look at the Moon's applying aspects. That describes their wives. Women look at any Planet in aspect with Sun to describe their husbands."
This is true but limited. Look at the receptions of the Moon, essential dignity, house placement, etc. In a horary chart, this is kind of untrustworthy because it's more about whom this person is presently, emotionally inclined toward. Regardless of matrimonial appellation.