Hi, every relationship has it's positives and negatives. Some are good, some are bad, but all are meaningful. I noticed that this is a deep, transformational relationship. Scorio ascendant (focus). The ruler is also being squared by the Moon in the 8th. And I noticed Mars conjunct Neptune. Check this out:
Neptune in hard aspect (including the conjunction) to personal planets in the composite chart can be highly challenging in my experience with composite charts. They generally play out over time. What starts as an almost idyllic relationship can turn sour and even bitter over time. Why? A strong Neptune can feel downright wonderful at the beginning, until reality starts to seep in. The couple may idealize each other, in different ways, and the wonderful first impressions can be hard to live up to.