Is he telling me the full truth?

[Pinkybow]

Hi,

Long story short my bf told me he has been communicating with another female. He knew her from school possibly 15 yrs ago.
He told me she asked him to meet up.
He said he told her no and nothing came of it but I can’t shake this feeling.


Please help me interpret this chart.

 

[Pinkybow]

I will try figure this out.

I am sun-He is Saturn, we are separating.
The thing that’s really confusing me is moon/Mars. Moon rules the 12th hidden, they are both in friends house so maybe they are just friends. Mars rules 4th end of the matter. Am I anyway right?

 

[ElenaJ]

His ruler Saturn is not making any aspects with anyone.
The ruler of his 5th of love affairs is the chart's 11th house, ruled by mercury.
True, mercury is in the 7th, so she did contact him.
Moon of the question is in the 11th (his 5th), the question is about him having a love affair.
Moon approaches a conjunction with mars, who rules his 4th of endings.
Venus as another woman in a man's chart is between Jupiter and Neptune, rulers of his 3rd of communications, so again we see her contacting him. However moon of the question moves away from Venus, towards the 4th of endings.

 

[Pinkybow]

His ruler Saturn is not making any aspects with anyone.
The ruler of his 5th of love affairs is the chart's 11th house, ruled by mercury.
True, mercury is in the 7th, so she did contact him.
Moon of the question is in the 11th (his 5th), the question is about him having a love affair.
Moon approaches a conjunction with mars, who rules his 4th of endings.
Venus as another woman in a man's chart is between Jupiter and Neptune, rulers of his 3rd of communications, so again we see her contacting him. However moon of the question moves away from Venus, towards the 4th of endings.

Thank you very much ElenaJ

That makes me feel a little more content. Should I be concerned that he has no aspects with me?

I don’t want this coming between us as we’ve overcame infidelity many years ago.

Kind Regards
B.

 

[ElenaJ]

Should I be concerned that he has no aspects with me?

This wasn't part of the question, was it?
So, we shouldn't use this chart to look at your relationship.
That would be the topic for a different horary at a different time.
For the moment, relax.

 

[Pinkybow]

This wasn't part of the question, was it?
So, we shouldn't use this chart to look at your relationship.
That would be the topic for a different horary at a different time.
For the moment, relax.

No it wasn’t. It was just to purely ask if he was telling me the full truth.
Thank you for your replies.

 

[waybread]

I'm not getting a clear signal from this chart-- but it isn't giving a definitive "yes, he is cheating on you" or "he's being dishonest" kind of answer.

What is more interesting to me, which ElenaJ has noticed, is that you and your boyfriend's significators really aren't connecting. They're both in a house that deals with sexuality and shared resources from the relationship, but this might be a good time to think through in your own mind whether you basically have what you want from a committed loving relationship.

 

[Pinkybow]

I'm not getting a clear signal from this chart-- but it isn't giving a definitive "yes, he is cheating on you" or "he's being dishonest" kind of answer.

What is more interesting to me, which ElenaJ has noticed, is that you and your boyfriend's significators really aren't connecting. They're both in a house that deals with sexuality and shared resources from the relationship, but this might be a good time to think through in your own mind whether you basically have what you want from a committed loving relationship.

Thank you waybread.

I also found that a little strange that we are not connecting.
Am I represented by the Moon or the Sun in this Horary?
Is it the sun as it rules the first house, but the moon represents woman. I’m still learning..

If I’m represented by the moon, why is that? And what would Mars represent as Mars is with the moon loosely.

Is Venus is the other girl?

 

[Samantha Bean]

I also found that a little strange that we are not connecting.

A synastry chart would be far more useful than horary in this instance, IMO.

 

[waybread]

You are symbolized by the sun, as the ruler of the first house. The moon shows your emotional stake in the matter. Many astrologers see the moon as your co-significator.