Many thanks Omnisphericus - BobZemco's posts are clearly knowledgeable - however as an ex-Military man the somewhat terse. uncompromising/'no-nonsense' style met with disapproval and his comments were frequently deleted and so perhaps not unexpectedly he decided therefore to have a vacation! However BobZemco is a popular contributor on our forum, is very much missed and many of us think he may return!Yes I want to look at the chart, that is why I asked for the gender of the native, to know whether to calculate the Lot of Marriage for Men or Women; which Universal Significator to use, Venus and Moon if the native is a man, or Sun and Mars if the native is a woman. Traditional Astrology makes these distinctions in delineating a chart.
I would go with assuming that the chart is that of a man, so we will see where will lead us
I will come back with the results.