I found your post a bit confusing, but I can point out some things that are true
sag 7th inimical for gemini asc, stress-delays in marriage-vocation;<-- correct
past 3 yrs sat transit inimical sag 7th marriage-vocation-health under stress;<--somewhat, but isnt every one stressed about this, hah
sat now 2.5yrs transit own cap 8th,
chronic health issues, urological-piles-knees etc;<-- not as far as i know
sat 1.5yr later heads towards natal sat cap 9th, 3rd from moon,
gradual lift in luck-edu-distant travels-change-initiative etc<-- i hope so. we currently live apart, but most probably we won't be settling anywhere that is familiar to either of us
time to take critical long-term decisions of life impacting next 30 yrs;<-- we have a plan, but there is no use to put it into action now.
ketu separative node 1.5yr transit acq 9th, distant lands;
natal rahu cap 9th, foreign travels, need for pilgrimage,<-- same as before
settling at 42+ <--oh no
sat cap 9th begin settling at 36+ <--still, oh no
jup sooner 019 year ahead transit own sag 7th,
growth through advisory-teaching roles,<-- this is what we both hope to do
but under stress-delay; abdominal-liver-thigh issues;
jup sag trine venus aries 11th, promoting art, relationship;
effective march-june 019 approx<-- well that is nice
natal jup lord 7th elevated cancer 2nd, fin support from spouse;<--which spouse?
retro jup delayed results;<-- seems right
jup-sat opp, misjudgments-missed opportunities;<-- this as well
jup cancer trine moon scorpio 6th,
research-occult-forensic-alchemy-investigative aptitudes; <-- yes, this is what we do
sun-mer sensitive pisces 10th,
literary-oratory-govt-managerial aptitudes,<-- this is what i hope to do
asc lord mer debilated pisces, emotional-confused;<-- this is probably me
lord jup elevated, debilation cancelled,
gradual improvements in career;<-- hopefully
mars 5th virgo, temperamental impacting romance-relationship, tech aptitudes,<-- again, probably me
virgo critical thinking, good for audit-quality control roles;<-- that's probably him
mer aspect own cirtical-intellectual virgo; sun-mars opp temperamental again;<--well isn't this a pattern
mer-jup lords 1/7 over pisces-cap 3/11, lords jup-sat, neutral,
merely dutiful in the marriage relationship;<-- this doesn't sound very comforting
thank you!