Yes, you see, I never thought of it this way.Gemini is ruled by Mercury, which represents the mind, one's psyche and one's senses. So having Venus in Gemini creates a strong correlation between Love and the mental realm. I would say that someone with Venus in Gemini would have Love on their mind much of the time. It would be a constant frame of reference, but also it could be that the arts and music and beauty/fashion, could take centre stage.
in in 9thYes, you see, I never thought of it this way.
I have venus and Mars Gemini. There isn’t exactly a conjunction it’s just same sign. I have often wondered how Mars & Venus affect my cancer sun/overall sense of self in general (that’s how I’m viewing the sun - the overarching sense of self) because of them being in the same sign I would imagine that they mean, I intensely desire emotional and intellectual connection.
I think you hit the nail on the head. I think there is a disconnect between your Water element, which hold your lights, the Sun and Moon---and the Venus/Mars in Gemini, which gets so much of your energy and strength. It motivates you to enlighten and educate others but maybe to the detriment of fulfilling yourself emotionally. I think you might even be overlooking and underestimating your own emotional needs and desires.Would you say that Mars and Venus act in service of sun/ego? I’m trying to see this in a psychotherapeutic way, if my chart suggests inner drives for relationships (romantic), and if they could possibly feed into my main drives, and my sense of self more than I’d like to admit. I’ll attach my chart for reference in case of interest in seeing this in context.
I agree. The riddle in this chart though is that the native has Sun in emotional Cancer trine Moon/Chiron in Scorpio, in 2nd house of self worth. So the internal struggle might be how to fulfil those Water lights and their need for emotional fulfilment when the active love planets are in Gemini in 9th of philosophical realm.I will offer an additional viewpoint from which to consider Venus in Gemini: that relationship, relatedness occurs to a large to degree in the mental domain, as opposed to the physical or feeling domain. This is not to say that Venus in any sign does not express and reside in the physical/feeling domain, only that in Gemini, the emphasis may tend to be something held mentally and expressed or experienced more by thought or speech...?
Well said !: Your relationships and your relation to other people are more situationalized cerebrally, rationally and mentally, rather than situationalized by psychological, emotional and spiritual means. You love people that are jack-of-all-trades, good conversationalists and you also love anyone that is analytical minded and/or have some good conversations with you. If you have this star conjunct any fixed stars that starseeds had been lived there before, your lover is likely a starseed (Fixed stars in Gemini sign that starseeds had lived: Mintaka, Alnilam, Alnitak, Polaris, Aldebaran, Nihal, Bellatrix, Rigel, Betelgeuse, other stars in Orion). You also love anyone who is knowledgable, hilarious, and even people who are rich. You are good at make money using your brain, so you are good at being a writer, journalist, MC, conversationalist, counselor, etc. In Esoteric Astrology, you have Venus in your own esoteric sign, so you are more attuned to the Gemini mission of unite people into one consciousness, and help people to learn the law of One that is united from the duality of the exoteric Gemini, and once you seperated from the duality of the exoteric Gemini, you're doing your Venusian esoteric mission to both you and others and your soul will fulfill it's purpose in a good way and Gemini is the sign of polarity, so you need to unite polarities into one