i don't know anymore

belgje

Member
Hi folks,

I'm having a verry hard time in dealing with a female Gemini(i'm a Taurus)We used to have such a good contact there whas no topic we couldn't talk about.As time passes i started to get feelings for her.I've readed on some astrology website that if somebody can "hook up" the awfull Taurus temper it's for sure a Gemini man that's 1000% true but wait i'll give you some background information

  • She's a nurse (i'm a patient in the hospital where she works)
  • We used to give eachother "petnames"
  • She has a relationship (just so you know)
  • She says to me that she's not permitted to have "to close" contacts with one of her patients(that may be true i find it a lame excuse)
  • I used to write her little (love)notes she had to search... (she enjoyed that)
  • some stuff did happen with her that's not so "pretty" for a woman with a relationship(i won't go into details)
  • she sends me to other woman but when i actually do that she keeps on watching what we're doing(do i smell jealousy here ?)
  • if she's jealous why is it so hard for her to admit that what's wrong with admitting something you feel ?? i won't kill her you know...
  • i don't wanna create the impression i'm the innocent one here there are some things i did she didn't appriciate
  • she even makes up excuses to be able to see what i do with other woman(if that isn't jealousy then i'm the pope)
  • then again she won't admit that to me
Now since a few months she does nothing but behave like a (forbidden word).I did ask her for some explanation but i doubt her honesty.I guess after two years i'm not a new fish anymore and she throwed me back into the water :mad: (just a guess since Geminis always want new experiences) if that's true i won't accept that.... man i am about to give here a piece of pure natural Taurus anger (a Taurus is not called "the bull" for nothing) she will be blown away :biggrin: but on the other hand that won't bring her any closer to me.To be honest i'm feeling used and now put with the trash and i refuse to accept.I'm stuck on this one.Why are Geminis so hard to understand ?? she's making me angry so angry... but i just can't throw her out (break the contact i mean) still her emotional coldness sometimes really irritates me and then she wonder why i am angry at her

woman i just don't understand them
 
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belgje

Member
Hello,

Nearly every astrology website i've come across mentions a Taurus is to slow for a Gemini.As a Taurus i feel threatened and it's complete b... I know what she thinks before she said it... besides let's use some numerology i'm a number 7

[SIZE=-1]The Life Path 7 suggests that you entered this plane with a gift for investigation, analysis, and keen observation. You are a thinker of the first order. You evaluate situations very quickly, and with amazing accuracy. As a result, you are thorough and complete in your work, the perfectionist who expects everyone else to meet a high standard of performance, too.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=-1]A Life Path 7 person is a peaceful and affectionate soul. But you guard your connection to people carefully. It's easy for you to detect deception and recognize insincere people, and you avoid them. You aren't one to have a wide circle of friends, but once you accept someone as a friend, it's for life. It's as if you must get to know someone a lot better before you allow the wall surrounding you to be penetrated. Chances are you are a very charming and refined individual with great poise and a quick wit. Nonetheless, there is an exclusiveness about you. You probably aren't a very social person. Your reserve is often taken to be aloofness, but actually, it's not that at all. It is merely a cover up for your basic feeling of insecurity. There's no rush, It takes time for you to warm up to new friends. Clubs and organizations hold little interest for you; you are not a joiner.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=-1]You actually like being alone and away from the hustle and bustle of modern life. In many ways, you would have fit in better in much earlier times when the pace of life was less hectic. You need a good deal of quiet time to be with your own inner thoughts and dreams. You dislike crowds, noise, distractions, and confusion.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=-1]The overwhelming strength of the number 7 is reflected in the depth of thinking that is shown; you will garner knowledge from practically every source that you find. Intellectual, scientific, and studious, you don't accept a premise until you have dissected the subject and arrived at your own independent conclusion.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=-1]This is a very spiritual number and it often denotes a sort of spiritual wisdom that becomes apparent at a fairly early age. A built in inner guide providing a strong sense of intuition may set you up as being a law unto yourself. Whatever spiritual position you take, whether traditional or bizarre, you will cling to it with fervor. Once you have decided an issue, it is almost impossible to get you to revisit the question. Adaptability is not your style, and change for you is a rarity.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=-1]You rely heavily on your experiences and your intuition, rather than accepting advice from someone. Your hunches usually prove to be very accurate, and knowing this, you follow the directions they seem to guide.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=-1]In the most negative use of the 7 energies, you can become very pessimistic, lackadaisical, quarrelsome, and secretive. A Life Path 7 individual who is not living life fully and gaining through experiences, is a hard person to live with because of a serious lack of consideration for others. There is such a negative attitude. Indeed, operating on the negative side of the 7 can produce a very selfish and spoiled individual and living with one can be a challenge. This may be why some 7s actually prefer living alone. If you have any of the negative traits they are very difficult to get rid of because you tend to feel that the world really does owe you a living or that in some way you are not being fairly treated.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=-1]Fortunately, the negative 7 is not the typical 7, at least not without some mitigating positive traits. This number is one that seems to have some major shifts from highs to lows. Stability in feelings may be elusive for you.[/SIZE]

I do realize not every Taurus is a 7...
 

belgje

Member
Hello,

Here you have something that can help.Personal information is removed
 

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bittermoon

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Without even looking at your chart.... if your relationship is one of nurse - patient, she cannot get romantically involved with you without risking her job or even her license.

Perhaps she did get feelings for you that went further than her professionally caring for you, and that's why she acts in such a strange and cold manner now.
 

belgje

Member
Without even looking at your chart.... if your relationship is one of nurse - patient, she cannot get romantically involved with you without risking her job or even her license.

Perhaps she did get feelings for you that went further than her professionally caring for you, and that's why she acts in such a strange and cold manner now.


yes i do know that (she's risking her job) and if she get's fired the reason for this is not so "beautifull" to find another job i understand her reasons behind it but it's so hard to accept but i guess i have no other choice
 

bittermoon

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Belgje, you have 4 planets in 'water' including your Moon and your Venus. These are sensitive placements which may want you to 'cling' onto people and situations. Letting go may be hard for you, but definitely not impossible!
 

belgje

Member
Belgje, you have 4 planets in 'water' including your Moon and your Venus. These are sensitive placements which may want you to 'cling' onto people and situations. Letting go may be hard for you, but definitely not impossible!


well she's not only my 'dreamwoman' and nurse but i've had a heavy surgery on my left knee and i'm in rehabilitation.I can tell you rehabilitation
of the knee is so hard there are days i wanna throw it all away and yell "leave me alone to my fysiotherapist" whenever that happens she comes talk to me.To make a long story short she"s also my source of energy to continue the hard fight to recover...
 

belgje

Member
Without even looking at your chart.... if your relationship is one of nurse - patient, she cannot get romantically involved with you without risking her job or even her license.

Perhaps she did get feelings for you that went further than her professionally caring for you, and that's why she acts in such a strange and cold manner now.


hmmmz how did you know that :surprised: I've had a good talk with her and she confirmned what you stated above.She also said if you love me as much as you say you do then you have to let me go i can understand this is not easy for you todo but much better in the "long run".It's not because i have feelings for you that i can accept and share them with you.I'm acting cold to you because i want to protect myself.I know it hurts you but you have to understand the reasons behind it.

hmmmz that does make sence still it's a pitty after all nurse or not she's human and humans have feelings...

:crying:

should i accept her advice or play the stubborn :taurus: ?
 

bittermoon

Well-known member
Belgje, I sometimes do 'know' things :ninja:

Take her advice and respect her wishes (though she does not really have a choice). It will make at least her life a lot easier. Once you are no longer 'her' patient, the whole game can change, though :)

But seriously, if you decide to play the 'stubborn Taurus' she might very well perceive that as childish and immature behaviour, which is not very attractive.
 
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Taurean

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I can tell you right now, be very careful getting involved with Geminis. They are much faster to jump from person to person. They can of course committ themselves to others, but they still need to have contact with other people, and new people. Otherwise they will bore themselves to death and in the end, move on.

I know from experience how they can be. It *seems* to us Taureans that they don't give a ****, but from their eyes it's just a way of living - to move on and live life as interesting as possible. The quicker you realize this and get your mind over to someone or something else, the faster you will feel better about yourself. We Taureans need to get down to the bottom of every thing there is, and this may scare them a little ... and when they're scared and think you're too serious, they will be as hard to turn around, as we are when someone's broken a promise!

I can definitely relate to the "coldness" you feel. When i got my first car, i used to drive to a place where i get my grocery cheaper. She would always keep me accompanied and ask to get a ride, to a place a little bit further away. Then, i moved away from the city we lived in. I never heard from her again. It's almost always been about me doing her favors (buying cigarettes, alcohol, driving her places). And you get nothing back for it.


Long story put short: Take the lesson to heart, move on with a golden valuable lesson in hand. Just because of the wonders of astrology ^^
*Again i must stress, not all Geminis i've met are like this. I understand their nature, i do see the positive sides of theirs, of course.
 

belgje

Member
Belgje, I sometimes do 'know' things :ninja:

Take her advice and respect her wishes (though she does not really have a choice). It will make at least her life a lot easier. Once you are no longer 'her' patient, the whole game can change, though :)

But seriously, if you decide to play the 'stubborn Taurus' she might very well perceive that as childish and immature behaviour, which is not very attractive.


I told her i will respect her wishes and it looks like she whas verry happy to hear that like i've taken away a heavy load of her shoulders but like you said yourself i do know she doesn't have a 'real' choice
 

belgje

Member
I can tell you right now, be very careful getting involved with Geminis. They are much faster to jump from person to person. They can of course committ themselves to others, but they still need to have contact with other people, and new people. Otherwise they will bore themselves to death and in the end, move on.

I know from experience how they can be. It *seems* to us Taureans that they don't give a ****, but from their eyes it's just a way of living - to move on and live life as interesting as possible. The quicker you realize this and get your mind over to someone or something else, the faster you will feel better about yourself. We Taureans need to get down to the bottom of every thing there is, and this may scare them a little ... and when they're scared and think you're too serious, they will be as hard to turn around, as we are when someone's broken a promise!

I can definitely relate to the "coldness" you feel. When i got my first car, i used to drive to a place where i get my grocery cheaper. She would always keep me accompanied and ask to get a ride, to a place a little bit further away. Then, i moved away from the city we lived in. I never heard from her again. It's almost always been about me doing her favors (buying cigarettes, alcohol, driving her places). And you get nothing back for it.


Long story put short: Take the lesson to heart, move on with a golden valuable lesson in hand. Just because of the wonders of astrology ^^
*Again i must stress, not all Geminis i've met are like this. I understand their nature, i do see the positive sides of theirs, of course.


Hi fellow Taurean,

Yes i recognize this Geminis need to have contacts with others and meet new people but that point doesn't butter me allthrough i am a Taurus jealousy is something i dislike myself(really)

Well you're right they can really give you the feeling they don't care but i think this is because Geminis do not show there feelings verry easy we Taureans do when we like a woman she will know

Well a Gemini may ask for a favor but it's verry hard to get something back.Something in which the Gemini zodiac is verry good at is finding a excuse to escape...
 

Vista

Well-known member
Well I can tell you that despite your Taurus Sun and Cancer Moon, with Uranus on the 7th house squared to Moon, there is a part of you that likes your freedom. You also have Jupiter ruling your 5th house in Aries...freedom. It's no surprise that you like someone who is unavailable to you, subconsciously you are ensuring that freedom need. That is typical of Uranus especially when it's placed or the ruler of the 7th. Also, the 7th ruler or the cusp afflicted by Uranus can manifest this way too. Besides being attracted to unavailable partners, you can also attract partners who can be too clingy making you want to eventually seek your freedom. Lack of balance or satisfaction, meaning your needs are never being met because either you are wanting someone who isn't available or you are with someone who is too available and you don't really want them. Does any of this resonate?
 

belgje

Member
Well I can tell you that despite your Taurus Sun and Cancer Moon, with Uranus on the 7th house squared to Moon, there is a part of you that likes your freedom. You also have Jupiter ruling your 5th house in Aries...freedom. It's no surprise that you like someone who is unavailable to you, subconsciously you are ensuring that freedom need. That is typical of Uranus especially when it's placed or the ruler of the 7th. Also, the 7th ruler or the cusp afflicted by Uranus can manifest this way too. Besides being attracted to unavailable partners, you can also attract partners who can be too clingy making you want to eventually seek your freedom. Lack of balance or satisfaction, meaning your needs are never being met because either you are wanting someone who isn't available or you are with someone who is too available and you don't really want them. Does any of this resonate?


hmmz it's scaring somebody is "analyzing" me but you're 90% correctl.I don't know why but i always "fall" for woman who are not availible sometimes the feelings are mutual but there are other reasons in the way... you're good...
 
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