Does that mean you'll kind of dislike me if ever you meet me? (Or maybe even extremely dislike) hahaha
Because, I have like 3 planets in Scorpio and Mars Virgo is trining my ascendant (2 deg orb). I'm also a Cap ascendant. But what exactly does being "classy" even mean? xD
I agree with you on Virgo though. My mom has her Mars-Jupiter close conjunction on Virgo, and since I have this trine my ascendant and it is also the handle of my bucket chart pattern, I think I do exhibit a lot of virgo energy. My mom is a neat freak, no joke. And originally, I wasn't a neat freak. But now that she's teaching and making me do so many chores at home, I slowly became one too lol. She also doesn't hesitate to voice out her criticism on anyone, especially to her loved ones, i see this as her way of showing that she cares and all, but it's quite painful sometimes. I DO find faults on other people and also do it subconsciously but I don't have the guts to voice it out because whenever I do, I realize that I have these faults too. It's like... whenever I point out something imperfect or negative about someone, i suddenly realize that its actually mirroring myself and I feel bad afterwards. I also kind of hate this sign, but when I started embracing it, I learned how to understand Virgo people. My mom, friends and an ex lover who are Virgo people, have actually pissed me off before, now though, I realized that deep down they're just caring in their own way, and they're really service oriented people as well.
Other than that, I have Jupiter in Pisces sextiling my ascendant so I think this kinda tames my Virgo energy (I think?). My way of finding faults and perfectionism is applied more on myself, so i'm quite harsh on myself.
I'm sorry you met/ had bad experiences with Scorpios though. Scorpios are one of the misunderstood signs and even I am scared of the negative vibrations of Scorpio haha! I hope you get to befriend one who is a more evolved scorpio or something. I have a few, and they're extremely loyal, intense and passionate with what they love or who they love and very soulful. On the other hand, I do find Tauruses extremely yummy hihi, despite being its opposite to my sign. So sensual and so "Venus" too. <3
I think the fault-finding, perfectionist, non-compassionate attitude towards other's weaknesses and flaws, is most marked when the Sun is in Virgo. And I don't hate people because of their zodiac sign, but I strongly dislike people who are provoked by people's flaws - if they do no harm. I mean, why hang up on a person's physical appearance, manner or clothing if they do no direct harm to anyone? But some Virgos are like that, they like to pick on people they don't like. I'm not talking about people who are critical in love towards their loved ones, I'm talking about people who are critical without purpose, just critical because they are bothered with people, you know. Virgos are not exactly (in general) people you feel like you can hug and be relaxed with; because the critical eye is set on you! When Virgos overcome this, they become really likable in my opinion. They should of course be critical, with love, not because they are simply irritated by that they criticize.
Leo is very much the opposite of Virgo - because they are very accepting of other's flaws, and very magnanimous. They don't mind the little details or if someone is wearing something funny to them, they don't hang up on it.
In a way, I hate all signs, and I love them all too. There are good and bad people of every sign of course. Virgo can be the selfless servant, Scorpio can be the spiritual shaman of the zodiac, Leo can be the merciful King, Cancer can be the fearless defender of the family and the nation, etc. It goes on, all signs, when perfected, are of course different archetypes of human Beauty and perfection. But in Daily Life you seldom see those evolved, perfected archetypes, you see the good and bad in the signs. I have read about Scorpios and perhaps met a few also, who were very, very good. Scorpio is the most interesting sign in my opinion, due to that Phoenix legend story, Rising from the Ashes etc. It is the most fascinating, mysterious one. But this I seldom see in Scorpio people The thing with Scorpios is that they represent extremes. Scorpio addicts for example will indulge in drugs to an extent that no other sign will; they are either hardcore addicts or they are Clean livers. There is no middle ground. I have very much Scorpio in my chart so I know.
I kind of fear Scorpios a little too, because although not as intelligent as say Gemini or Virgo, they are so probing and physic, they certainly do have the advantage when it comes to Power mind games.