Thank you for the additional insight.
Horary can be very precise, but any one element can have several meanings depending on the context.
So thanks to the new info we now understand that her 6th ruler of health, mercury, is square the nodes, thereby blocking her from relationships.
Also, your 6th of healing ruler, Jupiter, is on the 7th cusp because you are in some way helping her heal.
Not all relationships are meant to be "love" in the sense of lovers. You can love someone, help them, while being close friends, which is in fact the place of the moon/mercury conjunction... on your 11th of friends.
The movement of Venus (ascendent ruler) towards mars (descendent ruler) is a hand reaching out from you to her, on NN, it's possibly a Karmic debt of yours that you will be repaying.
Venus gives love, mars in your sign and triplicity can receive it and benefit from it.
Venus is on the MH, so in fact this is how you are being perceived.