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Hey, thank you for having a go. Even after reading my feedback, do you still stick to your answer? xo
So my question is, DOES HE KNOW (that I looked on his facebook etc)?
The question is bolded in post #1, after the background information. The question is also the title. I am unsure the reason for confusion, but I will state the question again.
Did anyone tell him that I looked on his facebook and saw his personal photos (Did anyone tell him that I had a crush on him)Does He Know?
But the question remains: was he told (by the girls).
Thank you for clarifying. I dont know horary, so I was confused in distiguishing between sources of information. Also, you cant blame for me wanting a differnt answer, hey.
Thanks a lot for contributing twice! xo
Tessie said:If he does know, I know that any working relationship I would have with him, upon possible return, would be dead calm seas, as opposed to dymanic and collegial, which is a bonus from the student's perspective. He would not sink to the level of questioning me [if he knew] about stalking his facebook, so there would be no overt expression of disapproval. But, if he does know, he would effortfully limit any friendliness in conversation so "not to give me the wrong idea" (as he did in the car #1, 3rd paragraph from bottom). If I knew that, through his lens, he saw only an eager student in me, that is good. If he saw a bunny stalking psycho, that is bad. The latter could only happen "if he knew." "If he knows," therefore, it would affect my work, and my attendence, as an outcome of my working [perceived] relationship to him. To be clear, however, I no longer like him in that way at all.
However, before that can happen you're going to have to make a decision to deal with this anxiety you have about the situation, and here's why. Before this sextile with Saturn can happen, the Sun is going to have to oppose Jupiter who is the ruler of the Eighth of Fear, Anxiety, Grief, and Loss. We see that Jupiter is retrograde (because we're dealing with a situation in the past that has resurfaced), but also in his own exaltation. Planets in their exaltation carry a sense of being inflated or consider themselves to be much more important than they are. This is really important, because it's telling us that this is a situation that you've blown out of proportion and is holding you back from what you want (by being in the Eleventh). To make it a bit worse, this opposition is with rejection, with the Sun applying to Jupiter from Jupiter's fall, so you're basically trying to work up some courage here to do what you want, but your anxiety over the situation is keeping you stunlocked.
I just wanted to know if he was told by anyone about the facebook issue, in the end, or if I am worrying for nothing. That is really the bottom line for me.
He liked you as much as you did but he was hidding in cazimi..
I don't find anything wrong with you wanting checking him out, Tessie. As the matter of fact, it would be he the one to set the "grounds", if he wanted that, that is, by stating his engaged status earlier...