Does he actually love me?

Are there any indicators of real love here? I’d like to think this could be a relationship that could be “the one” if you will for lack of a better word. I’m not the most hopeful as Virgo/Libra season have made us quarrel a bit and now there’s been a bit distance. We are slowly coming out of it but really trying to understand if this is a relationship that seems it could stand the test of time or if this man even has love for me. As a Pisces I’m always overthinking. I changed it so it doesn’t go above 6degree orbs but I think the widest was 5 shown here.

Also just in case:
Me: March 19th 1994, Fairfield CA, 5:25 pm
Him: Sept 7th 1991, San Jose CA, 5:39am


https://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=1&nho2=2&btyp=61&mth=gw&sday=7&smon=10&syr=2019&hsy=0&topo=1&node=-Yn&mnode=-Ym&prmth=0&aspc=1&aspn=1&asp=1&orbt=1&rs=0&ast=433%2C16%2C1181%2C


If that link doesn’t work try this :) I hope it does!

https://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_61gw_kiara_wondeh_jason_hp.51748.62795.png&res=100

If not I tried linking the pdf extended part

https://www.astro.com/tmpd/cksufileDKu404-u1508250383/astro_61gw_kiara_wondeh_jason_hp.66371.277692.pdf
 
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Ekonomist13

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His Mars in conjuction with Saturn in Pisces indicate his interest and passion in emotions, but he has to work hard to understand them, unlike you who intuitively understands emotions. I think he relies on you to give him energy and motivation for work, which is a good baseline for developing love.

It's just that he's an Aries with Venus in it, so he requires his partner to show her emotions more directly. Did you try that? Or did your conflict grow out of misunderstanding each other's feelings?
 
His Mars in conjuction with Saturn in Pisces indicate his interest and passion in emotions, but he has to work hard to understand them, unlike you who intuitively understands emotions. I think he relies on you to give him energy and motivation for work, which is a good baseline for developing love.

It's just that he's an Aries with Venus in it, so he requires his partner to show her emotions more directly. Did you try that? Or did your conflict grow out of misunderstanding each other's feelings?

Oh I’m sorry I probably should have said whose who! Im the Pisces individual so I’m the Aries in Venus and he’s the Virgo with Leo in venus. But yea it’s weird because we used to always sit down communicate our issues and communicate after fights and now it’s almost like he doesn’t show that same effort. A little backstory we both were in extremely toxic relationships before meeting, we moved in together after only like 3 weeks of knowing each other lol which I blame in part the Venus square Neptune. I also think neither of us have felt in love before meeting eachother so when we went out of the honeymoon phase and started learning to live together it made us have to face real issues. We both freaked out thinking “omg because we don’t feel that honeymoon phase tingle does that mean we weren’t in love?”. We tried and tried but communication was difficult but also we’re still learning eachother since we moved so fast (still learning each others tones, intentions , etc). But we’ve slowly regained that happiness back but because we WERE at such a low point any small argument can feel large. He doesn’t seem as effortful as in the beginning. Now it’s got me wondering if we have the aspects of love to overcome it or if he never loved me at all..
 
The link doesn't work for me.

Oh sorry bout that let me try again! I’m not sure how to post other than copy paste 😩

https://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=1&nho2=2&btyp=61&mth=gw&sday=%207&smon=10&syr=2019&hsy=0&topo=1&node=-Yn&mnode=-Ym&prmth=0&aspc=1&aspn=1&asp=1&orbt=1&rs=0&ast=433%20%2C16%2C1181%2C



Oh I tried something so there’s this too!


https://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_61gw_kiara_wondeh_jason_hp.51748.62795.png&res=100
 
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ElenaJ

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Not sure what the problem is, the first link brings me to my own astro.com homepage. The second one says the image has expired.
Why can Ekonomist13 see it and I can't? Very strange.
 
Not sure what the problem is, the first link brings me to my own astro.com homepage. The second one says the image has expired.
Why can Ekonomist13 see it and I can't? Very strange.

Dang it! I wonder how people get it to work.
I can tell you a little info if it’s not too much. If it is I understand!
Me: March 19 1994 , Fairfield CA, 5:25pm
Him: Sept 7 1991, San Jose CA, 5:39 am

Maybe a link to the pdf extended stuff?

https://www.astro.com/tmpd/cksufileDKu404-u1508250383/astro_61gw_kiara_wondeh_jason_hp.66371.277692.pdf
 

ElenaJ

Well-known member
Dang it! I wonder how people get it to work.
I can tell you a little info if it’s not too much. If it is I understand!
Me: March 19 1994 , Fairfield CA, 5:25pm
Him: Sept 7 1991, San Jose CA, 5:39 am

Maybe a link to the pdf extended stuff?

https://www.astro.com/tmpd/cksufile...o_61gw_kiara_wondeh_jason_hp.66371.277692.pdf

Here is a synastry and a composite.
In brief, it would seem you are just getting on each other's nerves.
There is some nice feeling between you, but in the synastry your mercury/mars/saturn opposes his moon, your sun opposes his mars and vice versa his sun opposes your mars, your pluto squares his mercury/jupiter.
These are all opposing types of energies that attract and mesmerise but in day to day living together they are very difficult to handle, and you start push/pull and power/ego battles that go on often under the surface, piling up towards a final explosion.
The easy aspects here are not as strong as the ones in conflict.
If we look at the composite, this shows up in the sun/mars opposition sitting on the axis of the nodes as well as the pluto/mercury opposition and the wide moon opposing Uranus/neptune.
Venus trine Saturn shows a basic affection that can last over time, but it is a small flicker of light in the thundery sky.
 

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