This is the part you don't seem to comprehend, which is that if you are looking for something beyond his good looks (in this case a job), by definition, you are looking for something else aside from looks. This means your attraction to a man is not solely based on looks.
Is that so hard to understand?
Of course not. But I have never said it was SOLELY based on looks. I said that women value good looks to a greater extent than we previously thought. Stop attributing arguments to me that I did not say.
As I asked before: would you date a homeless man? you answered no.
So clearly - there is something else. Perhaps you just dislike the term "wealth" because to you it means vast amount of money, despite the fact that wealth just means "resources. Fine lets use another term.
How would you like to define "having a job" in regards to quality?
Yes, let's do away with "wealth", and instead use a term that I truly meant and should have used: being rich. My thesis is that being rich by itself is very likely insufficient to arouse genuine feelings of attraction in a female. And furthermore, when us gals here said we want a guy who has a job, it's not because we are turned on by him being rich. In most cases, he won't be rich. He is probably just a good looking charmer with an ok job.
I hope this clears things up.
I don't disagree with you. And I just want to make it clear that I do not mean that women are only turned on by good looks/charm. And yes, almost all women look for a combination of things in a man.Because women are attracted to a combination of things. Of course they are looking for good looks, and of course they want someone they can have an interesting conversation with, but they also look for security, and they also look for status.
Each individual women usually wants one of these 4 attributes as a priority over the rest, something which varies from women to women and their individual situation.
For example: a hard working succesful woman will never date an unemployed lazy man, doesn't matter how good looking he might be, she just feels he is beneath her. This does not mean she isn't interested in good looks. In fact she probably wants a good looking guy. But she wants a good looking guy who is doing something with his life.
In contrast a women who is older, well established, and way past her prime may look for personality (as multiple's mother) or good looks - and don't care about money.
It really depends on the woman's individual situation.
However all of them look for a combination of these attributes. Even you.