YES. Thats it!!! If this is the case, we may have found the problem.
Darn it, is that where the intensity is coming from??
Mad Madam, I woke up to your comment this morning, and I read it with an understanding only one who already knows the problem can have.
My Lilith is in Sagittarius, and this man's entire astrological signature is Sagittarian. It feels exactly like that - like all the wild, untamed parts of me are meeting all the wild, untamed parts of him, and there is a recognition unlike anything I've ever experienced.
To tell you that the physical connection between us is intoxicating would be a mild understatement. When we are together, I feel like a sorceress. I feel that I can be myself, the thing I am at the very center of my sexuality. On top of it, whatever he is fits perfectly with what I need. Period. There is an exchange of raw power between us at the physical and emotional levels that I didn’t think was possible. That's just how it feels.
BUT, that power can be so destructive.
I know Elena mentioned the Lilith-South Node conjunction before, but because there is very limited information about it online, I didn't really focus on it.
We can sit here and talk about how we're a bad match and our charts are afflicted, and on and on. The problem is that there is something else between us that is powerful enough to keep things going, for good or bad. That's what I've been struggling with, and I needed, for my own sake, to understand it a bit better.