Part one: the natals
SO natal notes:
Big Green Star, just like you said. lol I rarely see these but I am in awe of them. Quincunxes fascinate me. I have a long history of them in synastry and in my natal as well. Annoying, but outrageously creative energy.
Your trigger points are Saturn/South Node, Venus/Neptune and Mars in Taurus, in 12th, 5th and 10th houses. First thing I have to say is that it is a good thing, in my opinion, that your Sun/Uranus conjunction is NOT a part of the big Green Star. I think that saves you from the most difficult side effects of Pandora’s box. In a way, you can stand aside and watch the craziness and weirdness and document it, as opposed to getting sucked into the rabbit hole. You can go visit the haunted house and take a rational unbiased view and make a journalists account of the situation without losing your head?
That Sun/Uranus is quite nice as a BS detector. You seem like you could really interview/interrogate people very well and truths are revealed quickly. Even without trying to or being seen doing so. People open up to you and reveal themselves and you take it all in.
Your Venus/Neptune is beautifully placed right inside the Jupiter/Pluto air trine. Again, psychic, intuitive radar system, picking up everything, quietly, without being invasive. A very sensitive, stealthy way of probing others?
The triple yod formation is fascinating to me. I have often seen that people with multiple yods often have this disparate group of odd skill sets and talents/interests that have no real connection to each other. And they often have a widely disparate, totally weird and varied group of friends. One good friend of mine with three yods, has 4 main interests. He is a concert violinist. a welder, and he loves Monster Truck rallies and Astrology. At his birthday parties it is a weird conglomeration of eclectic groups of friends and family.
New Friend:
She has a tight bundle, which funnels through her Cancer Moon in the 10th. She has a Water Grand Trine around that Moon, to Mars in Pisces and Saturn in Scorpio. Not the easiest grouping for a Grand trine. Especially with the square from the Saturn/Pluto to the Sun/Juno in Aquarius in the 5th.
You met her in the 5th house essentially, since you met up to see if the 5th was a possibility for you two? So you would have been thrust into that square between Sat/Pluto to Sun/Juno. [ note to self—see what it aspects in SO’s natal…lol]
One thing I can say about Juno/Sun conjunctions. ‘When she is good, she is very very good, but when she is bad she is horrid….’ People with tight Sun/Juno conjunctions may sometimes identify themselves closely with their relationships. It is hard to have clear boundaries set sometimes with Sun/Juno partners.
[ I am just going through the charts quickly and pointing out what jumps out at me....
]
TO SUMMARIZE;
SO has Sun/Uranus conjunction in Libra. I think he is very rational and logical when he tries to decide if he should consider dating someone . He may decide very quickly, but he does think things through and take many things into consideration because his life is complex. He is picky and gets annoyed easily. His Venus/Neptune makes him very sensitive so does not want to deal with negativity/drama in his relationships--no time for it.
His new friend is a funnel to Moon in Cancer. I think she is more emotive and impulsive, throwing caution to the wind. If it feels good it is good. She is just as intuitive and sensitive as he is, so it must have been quite a first meeting.
ok, on to the composite etc...
ETA---OH OH---just went to follow up on her Son/Juno square Saturn/Pluto, because i made a mental note to see if you had a natal hit to that square.....OUCH....
Your Mars @ 4 Taurus, makes an exact Tsquare to her natal square . I am worried now...lol