Maybe we could qualify this to say that these configurations could indicate abuse but could also manifest as a different kind of difficulty. We can associate a specific life manifestation to an astrological configuration but we can't guarantee that everyone with that configuration will have that same life manifestation.Your abuse IS visible in your chart. It can take many forms. Pluto or Uranus or even Saturn square Venus or Mars; Neptune or Pluto oppose the moon, 8th house planets conjunct, square or opposed heavy planets; Neptune in the 8th in difficult aspects to any planets plus possible inconjuncts from any heavy planet to personal planets, esp. Merc, Venus, Mars, Moon.
Neptune or Pluto on the 4th cusp; or the ruler of the 4 in square, inconjunct or opposition to a personal planet (as above.)
A stellium in the 8th house square a heavy planet.
It depends upon the type of abuse. But it will be in there and most knowledgeable astrologers will pick it up.
But you could show your chart or post your birth info and someone will draw the chart and discuss it with you,