Well, hang in there.
I'm sorry you've had such a rough time.
A very wise and funny astrologer, Steven Forrest, once said that no planet is in the sky just to hurt us.
Again, each planet has empowering and disempowering interpretations. The key is finding empowering interpretations. Simply, they work better than the disempowering ones. I say this as someone who has all of her planets involved in oppositions or squares. (Also a lot of retrogrades.)
I'd say you have a difficult chart, but that doesn't mean you can never be happy. So far as your Jupiter inconjunct Ascendant goes, Chiron is sitting right on your ascendant. This is one of those "it hurts to be you" aspects. But Chiron asks us to stay open to its wounds and hurts. When we do that, its gifts are wisdom and compassion. In this, Chiron and Jupiter have much in common. Jupiter rules wisdom and taking the broad view of life.
There are some wisdom asteroids, BTW, that you can access via Astrodienst's free chart pages at
www.astro.com. You can look at Astrodienst's (massive) list of asteroids and input their astronomical numbers into your chart. With asteroids, I only look at conjunctions (or you get too much space junk,) but see if ones like Sapentia, Sophia, Odin, or Wisdom (I think I got those right) ping on anything in your chart.
Maybe focus on the really good looking parts of your chart. With your Venus conjunct your part of fortune and sextile Neptune, I think you have a vivid imagination and artistic talent. Even if you've not yet developed it yet, graphic art, music, or even film-making should be a good way for you to express your individuality, notably electronic media. (Your artistic ability is reinforced, incidentally by your moon bi-quintile Venus.) Neptune trine Jupiter suggests you have a spiritual streak, whether you've activated it yet or not. It's a bit wide, but I'd consider these planets to form a talent triangle (2 sextiles joined by a trine.)
Sure, Venus is in detriment in Aries, but she's not helpless, given your domiciled Mars. Venus in Aries can be assertive and independent.
I think your NN in Cancer in the 7th house is asking you to make peace with other people.
You have embarked on your astrological journey. That's great, because you can use astrology as a tool for self awareness. BTW, Aquarius and Uranus are the modern rulers of psychology. This subject may be of interest to you-- and helpful.