Fris:
We spoke many times regarding the loss of my daughter and the
Tr. BML cj. my P.O.F within one degree at the very end of my 5th house.

You may recall that I usually when posting about BML bring this up, because it's something I've never been able to grasp or clarify / to myself considering
her own daughters who lost their mom, also had TR BML 15 deg. Sagittarius opposing their 12th house (sub-conscious?) 15 deg. natal BML. Something is up here,but I still can't make clear just what exactly.
I our cases, (twin daughters had their natal BML opposition, (exact deg.) and I had the P.O.F. conjunct. Neither of course a planet.
Yet I simply cannot dismiss this with a word like "coincidence".
Deb.
MEAN and TRUE Black Moon Lilith are calculated non-physically existent points. They can represent the images created of circumstances that never physically existed, or the inner longings and yearnings for that which does not physically exist. Yet they can also represent the natural talent lying dormant within waiting to express itself, for which have need of an aspect with a physical planet to manifest. This is important to remember when attempting to interpret their meaning with a physically existent planet.
I did years of soul-searching over this tragedy, and kept coming back to a dream I had years before she was born. It was a friend of mine as a teenager, who married badly, she had 2 daughters ( like my own daughter had), then died tragically and young in a car accident.....She and her husband had just broken up (like my own daughter's case)
In the "series" of dreams of this old friend; one was extremely strange and stayed with me forever. I chose in real life, not to go to the funeral parlor, a wake for her, but I told a mutual friend that I was almost due having my 1st child, so she said she'd be sure to go and have the "others" go too. The others comprised about 20 other friends or near that sum. Carol (the dead girl) mom told me about it when I eventually called her. The reason I called her is because Carol asked me to in a dream. Her mother spoke with a heavy German accent, but she did tell me how many friends Carol had from that wake appearance.
The very first time I dreamt of her, I DID in effect, enter the funeral parlor, walked past dozens of weeping family and friends, went to the casket, knelt to say a prayer, and looked at her face. Her face (eyelids) started to twitch and move, and then she awakened right there in the casket. I started yelling to the onlookers who were still deeply into their own grief over this loss.
I yelled, "She's not dead, she is alive and right here with us".....then I looked at her again, and her face started to change into that of a baby....end of dream.
I always believed somehow, that dream was telling me, she would reincarnate, and very possibly she did as my youngest daughter.
The Black Moon Lilith is mostly is not ALL subconscious energy isn't it?