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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Cypocryphy" data-source="post: 1091521" data-attributes="member: 9884">Thanks for the feed back! So being blunt—the poor and abusive relationships are due to your sense of self-worth or poor sense of self. There are esteem issues. There's the "lack of developing healthy relationships and being able to have complete intimacy," as previously mentioned. It goes without saying that you can't really have that true intimacy in an abusive relationship because of the negativity involved and power dynamics.Also, you stuck in them too long because your partner's are controlling, and that's in large part because of <img src="https://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/styles/smilies/saturn.png"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":saturn:" title="Saturn    :saturn:" data-shortname=":saturn:" /> in your chart. I don't have your chart up at the moment ... Oh! I almost forgot. To your question of whether I was referring to your <img src="https://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/styles/smilies/venus.png"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":venus:" title="Venus    :venus:" data-shortname=":venus:" />/<img src="https://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/styles/smilies/moon.png"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":moon:" title="Moon    :moon:" data-shortname=":moon:" /> aspect. Your post was interesting because one of my last posts was on this subject. I had, at one point, been doing studies on various statistical instances of astrological phenomena, and I thought it would be interesting if homosexuality could be determined in a chart. So I copied from that post what I had written, and I'll post it here: Yes. That will be in large part due to (1) your impulsiveness in relationships, and (2) because of, well, it's two fold because I can look at in two ways, from a psychological and from a material point of view. The psychological is due to poor feelings of self-worth, which can be worked on. The other, the actual, when tends to take on more of a deterministic aspect, is that you will tend to enter relationships that are controlling. There is a lot of fear mixed in with your love, too. And a lot of changeability and changing of situations within the relationships, that there will be drama, lots of highs and lows. That's the "fear of reaction." The fear of rejection is sometimes expressed as not letting go because letting go or leaving the situation resembled rejection in some ways. Fear of rejection is fear of being alone, in many situations. Yes. I bet you are. But you also don't like a boring relationship. And I mean boring in the sense that you are bored if things do not have a crisis point every so often. Always go for safe to avoid injury, psychological or otherwise. With women, I can see a competitiveness with women, with an older woman. An older woman would be one that understands you and would help you feel comfortable. But in the same sense, would also feel controlling. But you'll rebel, which will help create a crisis situation, which in turn will make sure it won't be boring. She'll also be a loner, independent. I hope that rings true, and I hope that helps! <img src="https://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/styles/smilies/smile.png"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":smile:" title="Smile    :smile:" data-shortname=":smile:" />P.S. I think you will find that you are more strongly attracted to men. However, as you can see, you have clear cut markers for variation in sexual preference. That's why I responded.</blockquote>

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