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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Januarystorm" data-source="post: 873750" data-attributes="member: 55923">i can absolutely for sure 10000 percent say: just because you have a cancer ascendant and saturn ruling your 7th house does NOT mean you wont have a relationship or get married.two points to clarify and explain this, one is from my personal experience/life and the other from a celebrity- i find that taking my word or anyones word from an online forum where people you dont know talk about people THEY know- well they could be literally making it up or whatever- so thats why giving an example of people that are well known and especially well known private life- is far more credible for you to say- hey, you know what thats right, that IS true.1. my mother, has perhaps one of the more difficult charts regarding relationships/marriage -she is a libra ascendant- with a retrograde saturn in ARIES in the 7th house. just let that sink in- she is a LIBRA ASCENDANT (also known as those people that NEED/DESIRE interpersonal and perhaps even more so romantic relationships in order to feel balanced and comfortable) who has SATURN FALLEN IN THE 7TH HOUSE IN THE SIGN OF ARIES- AND HE IS RETROGRADE. now- this is obviously something most astrologers would agree is a difficult and very hard aspect for anyone to have, and i personally can attest to the fact that my mother has had a lot of struggle and strain and anything you can imagine would happen with this aspect- BUT - this story has a happy ending. so she married my father at 23, i was actually born when they were not married when they were 19 and because they were both in college at that time, they decided to wait until they got their degrees to marry, and i lived at my grandmothers until they finally did and when i was 4 they got married and together with me and their college degrees things were looking quite well for them, well the years following that- until i was about 13- i witnessed two people that so loved each other, display the most terrible and cold and just horrible behavior, it was truly on another level and i wont go into the painful details- lets just say thank god they did not kill each other. BOTH were at fault- BOTH made mistakes and BOTH are equally wrong- but thankgod when i was 13, they divorced and my mother, the libra ascendant that she is- went through a terrible for her im sure period where she was single- which at times i got the feeling that THAT was more hurtful to her than the terrible relationship with my father- but she persisted and thankgod she only suffered for half a year or so when she met my stepdad, and you know what, she IS happy with him. he is quite a strict, stern, i would say very saturnian man (he is the same age as her no difference btw same as with my father- so saturn in the 7th does not mean your partner will be grandpa joe!) but he is reliable, she can depend on him, they go on trips, they have fun together, i truly believe they love each other, yeah its a bit colder and restricted than other couples, but they have been together for 15 years almost- more than she was with my father- and they are going strong as ever, they got married when my mother was over 35- coincidentally my stepfather ALSO has saturn in the 7th retrograde- he also got married before my mother and that ended quite severely too- but now, look at this- they are TRULY and WHOLLY in love and together and i really think this is going to be forever and ever, because when saturn does give something- its gonna be long and very lasting and probably unbreakable- is it the fluffy romantic amazing exiting type of love? nope- but to be honest im pretty sure my mother and stepfather would HATE such things and despise and criticize them in others. so you see, even with a fallen retrograde 7th house saturn- it is possible to find love- the love that is perfect for you- i could not picture anymore more perfect for my mother than my stepfather and vice versa- its literally a match made in heaven- and they are happy with THAT kind of love- and that is what matters, not what other people think or want but what YOU want from a partner, and for some, they WANT that saturnian partner that is strict and a bit colder and authoritarian, and that is their godgiven right.2. ok now about the cancer ascendant, specifically MARRIAGE is almost always delayed for them i have noticed, but marriage is not relationships, it is not partners or spouse- its just the actual marriage, but i know many cancer ascendants that have relationships from lets say 19 or 23- and they are together with their partners for many years, and usually they tie the knot after 30- this does not mean they were alone all this time- they usually have had a steady relationship for many many years- more than the rest of us- its just the ACTUAL marriage happens later. thats all. celebrity example: chrissy teigen and john legend started their relationship when SHE was 20- and she is a cancer ascendant by the way. well they started their relationship when she was 20, and they got married when she was almost 30- and they have been married for a long time- and have been together for even more- and they have a daughter and a son on the way- again, she is a cancer ascendant, she did get married later- but this can play out in so many different ways- that you just assuming youll be alone and then meet someone when your 35 and get married within two days- of course not, im sure you will meet your partner and you actually can meet your future spouse any day- today tomorrow or maybe you already met- its just that its better for you to wait until you pass 30/32- but it does not mean you should or going to wait that long to have a significant relationship! just relax everything is always working out for you- even when you dont see it. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite16" alt=":love:" title="Love    :love:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":love:" /></blockquote>

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