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Message: <blockquote data-quote="UnluckyGirl" data-source="post: 872734" data-attributes="member: 47635">I am a Cancer ASC like you, Saturn is in my 8th H in Aqua too which I find very problematic. I have never been intimate with anyone (it doesn't have to do with my family or environment like for example being religious, waiting for marriage etc.. majority of people in my country have sex before they turn 20). I have Pluto in 5th H too (squaring Mars and Venus instead of Saturn).I am wondering if Uranus, Neptune and North Node are in your 7th H too? Mines are right  on the 7th H cusp (Uranus and Neptune) and North Node just in 7th H without making aspects with any planets other than Mercury in 1st H. Well to be honest I know just 2 people with Cancer ASC. One is about 46 (maybe a little more) and the other one about 34-37. The first one being a woman the second one being a man. None of them have been married or have kids. I think both of them didn't even have sex. The man is VERY attractive which was a SHOCK. I mean he could be a model.. that attractive.. Unfortunately I don't remember much else about their charts, I was younger when I checked them and didn't know much at that time (astrology wise). To be honest (even if you don't have Uranus, Neptune or North Node in 7th H) A Capricorn DSC, Saturn as the lord of the 7th H in 7th or even worse in 8th H in detached non personal Aqua is a sure failure mix in my honest and very humble opinion. I don't want marriage or family myself but I wanted to have sex when I was a bit younger (15teen to 21 yo) with a stable partner. No matter how much in love I was no matter how good and patient the guy was no matter how much someone turned me on or how much I needed sex or hugs or anything like that I could never just do it.. I shoyld have tried to force myself because by the time I understood that the problem was mine it was a bit too late. When I was 16teen I thought "well maybe it is too early even if I want to, it would be better if I waited a little bit longer" same thing when I was 19teen.. when then I became 22 and lost interest in relationships (because I understood that they are not as beautiful as I imagined them to be since I didn't consider the practical side of ithem) it was a HUGE mistake that I didn't do it earlier.. I was always being too careful and logical ignoring my feelings believing that love is a sure thing and that is better to wait until a bit later.. Nope! Not at all.. Now being 27 having a shitty life the last years full of problems and seeing relationships as a burden I know I won't have any (which means no sex too) especially since I am not interested in having family/marriage. So there is no point in having my first one in such an age. And the older you get it gets more difficult. I mean Saturn is supposed to be a mature planet but I find him to be retarded. Being mature doesn't mean waiting to do things when you are too old to do them or feeling like you are starving for something (in this case intimate relationships) for years until you can have a bite that will dissapoint you anyway in the end. Of course anyone could have sex at their 60s or 70s or 80s if they want to.. but I don't know anyone like that. It just didn't happen to them. I have found that Nodes in 1st/7th and 4th/10th houses are very common for people who have not been married in their life.Also Saturn in 7tH or DSc in Capricorn too. There is no guarantee when it comes to relationships. But happy with a 7th H Capricorn? Nope I don't think so. Capricorn is not about being happy it's about being responsible I think it will feel like a burden more than anything else. Tbh.. I don't think that we really need to wait until first Saturn Return I think that Capricorn DSC itself prevents you from having relationships when it is normal to have one (meaning younger) and when you want it. For me that is ridiculous it just feels like Capricorn DSC were just unlucky to have that DSC. If it wasn't we wouldn't feel the need in the first place or we would feel it after our first Saturn Return. There is a reason Saturn is considered malefic. Whatever planet Saturn touches in my chart it just get so bad and slow and painful without any actual reason behind it. And honestly "the reward in the end" thing is just b******* to consol people OR for some weird reason my natal chart especially has a huge problem with Saturn transits progression and whatever. I don't know anymore. My best advice is that you have to force yourself.. otherwise it will be too late. In my opinion nothing will magically happen after Saturn Return when it comes to relationships I mean. Saturn return may bring deaths literal ones or not or make our deepest fears (8th H) become reality. Also Saturn with Saturn in 8th H you have to expect a poor husband or at the best a wealthy one who will be stingy. And I just remembered a girl a year younger than me who has a Cancer ASC and a Saturn in 8th H too. She also didn't have any relationships at all nor sex and the weird thing is that her 7th H is not f*cked up like mine. She also has more extovert signs  than me like Aries Moon. There are a lot and I mean a LOT people who have not find a partner. We gorw up believing relationships are a standard thing to happen and they kind of come so naturally that it is a shock for some when they realise that it  is not the truth.</blockquote>

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