I‘m a Cancer ascendant and 20 years old. I never had a serious relationship but this is due to my Venus in Cancer in the 12th house so I‘ve got ridiculously high standards in love. I did have a lot of one-night-stands (maybe like 15) and the first time I had sex was with 14 (maybe Jupiter in the 8th?). I also have Uranus and Neptune in the 7th so I‘m not really into marriage because I just don‘t understand the idea behind it. It‘s too conventional for me and it‘s too restrictive for me. The concept is too religious for me and has nothing to do with love. I‘m also scared of having to give money when divorced because I‘m from a rich household. Don‘t know why everyone is so obsessed about marrying. It has nothing to do with the Ascendant I believe though every Cancer ascendant that I know has been single for quite a few years but they either have Venus in the 12th or Uranus in the 7th.
Don't blame your Cancer Venus in 12th H.. Neptune in 7th H is enough by itself.
Couldn't agree more with you about marriage. The whole ceremony feels plain stupid to me same goes for the idea behind it. That's Uranus for us.
Having Jupiter in 8th H is the opposite of having Saturn in there. Do you also have Saturn in 8th H?
@unluckygirl i couldn't agree with you more. After Saturn return nothing happens...everything stays as it is...so no rewards. I'm 34 and no sex. Couple of short term relationship in my early twenties. I would like to have relationship and family but i fell into depression after all unlucky experiences. Also had to go through my hard childhood experiences in therepy. Saturn is hitting to my midpoints in my natal chart...making my life sour. Saturn is in my 2nd house of selfworth. Saturn and Pluto conjunct in the 2nd. Moon in my 5th is in aqua. Asc virgo. 7th house is empty and its ruler Neptune is making exact trine to 12th house mercury. Toxic.
That's a pity. You never had sex?
Could you post your natal chart?
What's going on with your 8th H?
Honestly I am very tired of listening to others trying to make Saturn look less shitty than he really is.
I think people try to make it sound better in order for others to not freak out. The worst thing with Saturn is not only that it doesn't reward no matter what, nor the depression.. but the fact that the person keeps waiting forever because Saturn doesn't make you mature/experienced in that area.. that's so far from truth.. In reality Saturn kills every opportunity making sure that you'll stay immatured and inexperienced in that area. You keep waiting forever until you realise it's never going to happen, no matter how many obstacles you overcome there will always appear more and more.. That is Saturn.