Any transits that show why i’m finding it hard in finding love?

[xichuwangwai]

And, it's ok that you're "not buying it", cause I'm not selling it to you.

 

[xichuwangwai]

About what you said "Every one of us is on a separate pathway and the natal is a basic tool in identifying it":

A personal natal chart is not that "basic" when there's something big going on in the world, Mundane Astrology is now the "basic tool". For example, World War II, many people had the same death, well it doesn't seem to be "on a separate pathway" now. To find out why, you have to try to find answers in Mundane Astrology first, and then you can read personal charts based on the answers that you've found in Mundane Astrology.

PS: I'm not so good at English, so there could be misunderstandings.

 

[ElenaJ]

About what you said "Every one of us is on a separate pathway and the natal is a basic tool in identifying it":

A personal natal chart is not that "basic" when there's something big going on in the world, Mundane Astrology is now the "basic tool". For example, World War II, many people had the same death, well it doesn't seem to be "on a separate pathway" now. To find out why, you have to try to find answers in Mundane Astrology first, and then you can read personal charts based on the answers that you've found in Mundane Astrology.

PS: I'm not so good at English, so there could be misunderstandings.

Xichuwangwai, your English is fine, actually very good. I trust that in reading my reply you do pick up the sense of what I mean to convey.
I don't "buy" your comment simply means I'm not convinced about your statements.
Yes, you are trying to "sell" it by the mere fact that you post it on an open forum, communicating to all and any.
It is clear that mundane astrology creates a general global context for all of us, and there is always something of importance going on in the world, but it is the natal chart, and our will, and our insight into it, that will lay down a basic pathway for each of us.
Each person will react differently when faced with the same situation.
Some will collapse, some rebel, some take action to overcome, etc etc multiplied by an infinite number of reactions.
And these reactions are what matter, and they arise from the natal chart and the energies contained within it.
The querent in this thread has very specific aspects in the natal chart, which presumably none or almost none of us will have. So the reply must go beyond consideration of, for example, two years of pandemic and lockdown, and be specific to what that energy is.
Emerging from the pandemic, statistics show a dramatic rise in both the number of divorces and the number of marriages! Both opposite reactions to the same global phenomenon. Which is why I still maintain that the natal is the basic reference point.

 

[xichuwangwai]

I know my English is not good, but thanks.

And no, I'm not trying to sell anything, I was asked to reply to Osamenor, I didn't even want to, I only did that for valuhz's sake.

Everyone has the right to do astrology their own ways. Some are good, some are not.

I was here just trying to talk to valuhz and tell her try to relax a little bit. I don't know if she's relaxed, well I'm not, obviously.

 

[valuhz]

Saturn is on the 7th cusp, but moon rules the house. They are in conjunction, both in home and tradition loving cancer.
Your emotional urge is to put down roots, create a family and establish traditions.
At the tender age of 18, you can't really expect to have had many important romantic relationships in your lifetime, but your moon is longing for that.
Your partner could be older (Saturn) or a saturnian type (Aquarius sun/moon/ascendent) or even cancer, or moon-like.
The Pluto transit on your ascendent is there to help you create your own distinct personality and expression.
Natal pluto is exactly square mars, not easy energy to learn to handle, so this will be part of the lessons of the pluto transit.
Pluto is pushy as well as individualistic. So you might be presenting yourself almost as a loner or an aggressive type, a little on the overpowering side, which is contrary to your introverted cancer moon and shy virgo sun.
Moon and sun are in sextile, promising a healthy relationship with a partner.
Sun caught up in the pluto/mars square also pushes you towards being authoritarian and controlling.
Sun on mars gives you energy and courage to act, but again sometimes taking the lead and coming across as overwhelming and controlling.
Once you've settled into a good balance of energies, thanks to transiting pluto, your shy Capricorn will come out more easily to others, as well as the other energies you have that are maybe hidden at the moment.
But then, life is about learning lessons, and we all have many to learn from birth to death. So just make the most of it, without fear.
The rewards will be well worth it!

Thank you~ this information is well given

 

[valuhz]

I know my English is not good, but thanks.

And no, I'm not trying to sell anything, I was asked to reply to Osamenor, I didn't even want to, I only did that for valuhz's sake.

Everyone has the right to do astrology their own ways. Some are good, some are not.

I was here just trying to talk to valuhz and tell her try to relax a little bit. I don't know if she's relaxed, well I'm not, obviously.

I wouldn’t say I’m relaxed because my life has been **** in every aspect; studies, family, relationships, friends, mental health, ocd, depression. Life has not been that great but I’m still looking forward to life with a little sense of optimism, i really appreciate and thank you for the support you have given towards me! I hope you get the relaxation as soon as possible!

 

[uranianplutonian]

Wait, but i checked the transits and it shows i still have the pluto opposite saturn transit til next year and i’m currently experiencing the pluto opposite natal venus right now, so far nothing new it’s been very stagnant but i think it has more to do with issues of myself and my behavior towards relationships

The Pluto-Saturn opposition will be separating, so it’ll be less potent.
It’s good to bounce ideas around. It sounds like you’re finding some answers. The environment we grow up in plays a big role in our attachment style, and how we approach and interact in relationships too.