No way… i can’t believe i’m gonna suffer a whole decade again with Pluto in 1st in the sign of Aquarius, I’m already tired of it transiting in my 1st in capricorn since 2019. Really seems like life is not being good, **** PLUTO!It could have something to do with Pluto transiting your Ascendant and first house, and transiting Uranus applying to a close conjunction with transiting North Node in your fourth house. These transits don't exactly give safe space/place vibes to pursue a romantic relationship (in my opinion) - they're throwing you out of your comfort zone and pushing you to transform first house and fourth house matters, which takes up a lot of energy, likely leaving you with little available capacity to pursue romance in a healthy way.
From my experience of having Pluto in the first house of my natal chart with a Scorpio Ascendant (which intensifies the placement), the suffering comes from not letting go and from not allowing a transformation (or transformations) to take place. Any time I’ve held onto something, like a relationship after I was meant to let go, that’s when I’ve experienced the most suffering. It’s easier said than done, and takes a certain mindset and trust in oneself to let go.No way… i can’t believe i’m gonna suffer a whole decade again with Pluto in 1st in the sign of Aquarius, I’m already tired of it transiting in my 1st in capricorn since 2019. Really seems like life is not being good, **** PLUTO!
Right, it makes sense. It’s my natal saturn conjunct venus in 7th i guess. I have been experiencing it my whole life so it’s not really just a transit thing.How long have you been finding it hard to find love?
For it to be transit related, it would have to be something that's just happening now, or for the last few months, a year or two at most, when finding love has been relatively easy for you previously. Since you're only 18, you can't possibly have that much history with finding love (assuming, of course, that you mean romantic love) for comparison. At that age, it's not unusual to have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend, and for those who have, their romantic history is too short for a clear pattern to be established.
If there's an astrological correlation to be had, it's in your natal chart, not the transits.
Buttt a transformation for about a whole decade…? I wanna cry. I wouldn’t mind if it was 3-4 years… But you’re right, as much as i’m pissed about this, i should let transformations happen and let myself grow.From my experience of having Pluto in the first house of my natal chart with a Scorpio Ascendant (which intensifies the placement), the suffering comes from not letting go and from not allowing a transformation (or transformations) to take place. Any time I’ve held onto something, like a relationship after I was meant to let go, that’s when I’ve experienced the most suffering. It’s easier said than done, and takes a certain mindset and trust in oneself to let go.
When I listened to the feeling I’d get when it was time to let go, significant transformations took place and I was always stronger as a result of letting go and allowing the transformation to take place.
You could still have a romantic relationship with the transit through your first house, just try not to attach yourself to any expectations, etc. (This will make it harder to let go if ever you have to.)
Also, I’d say the best relationship anyone could be in during a Pluto transit through the first house, is with someone who gives you room and space to transform yourself and grow as a person, and someone who embraces change and encourages self-growth.
Pluto can give you strength and empower you. You just have to trust the transformation process.
Natal saturn right on your DSC would be the obvious one. Not a transit though.
Does it indicate a older partner than me? Idk what’s with me but i definitely prefer older people for relationships way more than people who are younger than me
Pluto transiting the first house is really felt when it's transiting the AC, and when it makes a conjunction to a planet in the first house or a square or opposition to a planet that can be directly squared or opposed from the first. Depending on the layout of your chart, that might mean the only time you feel it that intensely is the 2-3 years it's within orb of your ascendant... or, if you have many planets placed where Pluto transiting your first house will touch them, it can go on for longer. In that case, though, the intensity waxes and wanes with the strength of the transits. You might have years when Pluto is in your first house but not within orb of touching anything crucial.Buttt a transformation for about a whole decade…? I wanna cry. I wouldn’t mind if it was 3-4 years… But you’re right, as much as i’m pissed about this, i should let transformations happen and let myself grow.
Wait, but i checked the transits and it shows i still have the pluto opposite saturn transit til next year and i’m currently experiencing the pluto opposite natal venus right now, so far nothing new it’s been very stagnant but i think it has more to do with issues of myself and my behavior towards relationshipsNatal Saturn on your DSC could cause constraint in 7th house matters, but from my perspective, the help it receives from the benefic Venus in your 7th house lessens Saturn's effect on your DSC.
Transiting Pluto opposing your natal Saturn on your DSC has likely amplified the restrictions of your Saturn placement. The good news is that transiting Pluto will be separating from its opposition with your Natal Saturn in October.
As Osamenor said too, it's not unusual to not have had a romantic relationship yet at 18.
Transiting Pluto will be applying to an opposition with your natal Venus in your 7th house starting in October. I wonder if this opposition between transiting Pluto and your natal Venus will bring about an intense romantic relationship for you. You may attract an older (since your natal Saturn is on your DSC), Plutonian person. Be careful if you do. You're at a vulnerable age (18) because you don't have as much dating experience, which could be taken advantage of an older, ~less evolved, Plutonian person.
Definitely embrace the transformations. They will empower you.
So you're saying everyone is having difficulty finding love now?@Osamenor
It is pretty obvious.
In order for one to find love, one's social life is like the most important way. The past 2~3 years, this plague has been going on worldwide, and everyone's social life has been more or less affected, thus a lot of people find it hard to find love. Since everyone in the world has been affected, it's not "very personal" anymore, it is a worldwide issue. And since it's a worldwide issue, Mundane Astrology (or such) has everything to do with it. In other words, the main answer is in Mundane Astrology (or such), not in any personal charts!