Ukpoohbear, it’s kind of off topic for the thread, but we met when I had no interest in dating, as I don’t believe in workplace romance, so it gave us time to get to know each other properly.
Having young children is stressful. I wouldn’t choose to do it with a someone unable to labor emotionally or professionally. Children need a village worth of parental quality protection for years, if it ever ends. I don’t believe any society that doesn’t fundamentally organize itself around supporting child life of all kinds has any right to say whether a woman may abort or not.
Yeah agreed, society and men are part of the problem why women have abortions, it’s unfair to put the pressure on us to have children without addressing other factors.
And thanks for sharing about your romance. I like being friends first too, it makes such a difference to the overall energy of the connection. Sounds like you got yourself a nice man who is emotionally and professionally available.