10 years crushing for the same person living in different continents why?

user7895

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Hello.

I wanted to share my sinastry chart with this person I met years ago and studied with him for about 1 year before leaving my country for good. In these years apart my feelings from him instead of disipating , jut got stronger, I even dream with him often although I don't ever see pictures of him as I dont have social media accounts, we had one event when we kinda felt the feelings of the other, like one day he was really sad and while I was working I had this horrible feeling and wanted to cry, somehow, my mind went to him straight away and when I texted him he confirmed he was crying, after that and that I revealed my feeling for him he just stopped talking to me.

ANyways back to astrology I heard that if the other person's pluto conjuncts your moon that explains the obsessive thoughts but in this case there is no conjunction. Here is the chart and aspects. I am blue he is orange.
 

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ElenaJ

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The mars opposing mars sits on his moon's nodes, and this could very well be what is keeping up the connection, it is a powerful connection and is something left over from the past, brought into your current and future psychology.
In aries and libra it is in the area of the individual as opposed to the partnership.
You were probably lovers in a past life, and something happened to break up the relationship, which is what you are feeling now and your inner self is trying to heal.
 

user7895

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Thanks for your response, Wow yes that could be possible. However there is other aspects in the charts that I am curious if could have something to do with it.

For instance, my vertex sextile his north node, his vertex sextil my moon, north node sextile north node, my venus trine his moon, his venus sextile my moon, his moon trine my Saturn lord of 7th in 7th house, his pluto also , those seem like pretty strong significant aspects but I am not really sure, what do you think?
 

ElenaJ

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They can certainly reinforce a positive and emotionally sensitive relationship, but the mars/Nodes is probably the one that is triggering the situation you wrote about.
 

user7895

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They can certainly reinforce a positive and emotionally sensitive relationship, but the mars/Nodes is probably the one that is triggering the situation you wrote about.
Ok thanks for clarifying that, it is good to know at least what could be the reason of this.
 

Jannaj15

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Its the Lilith ☌ Sun. I had a similar story with a person and there was a lot of Lilith involved (I count only conjunctions). Either one of the partners can get absolutely obsessed with another
 
What is limerence?
You can google it. I can recommend the site living with limerence for more information. There is a button that says "Start here". There you can learn more and see if it resonates with you.

https://livingwithlimerence.com/ they also have an amazing and very supporting community.

I had a limerence episode couple of years ago. I was so infatuated, posted our charts, "it feels other worldly, what planets is it due to lala" or "Why do we have such a great connection, does he feel the same" lalala.

Well it was not due to "astrology",(of course not) it was limerence on my part.
Atleast I could later see what aspects can indicate a person predisposed to limerence
 

ElenaJ

Well-known member
You can google it. I can recommend the site living with limerence for more information. There is a button that says "Start here". There you can learn more and see if it resonates with you.

https://livingwithlimerence.com/ they also have an amazing and very supporting community.

I had a limerence episode couple of years ago. I was so infatuated, posted our charts, "it feels other worldly, what planets is it due to lala" or "Why do we have such a great connection, does he feel the same" lalala.

Well it was not due to "astrology",(of course not) it was limerence on my part.
Atleast I could later see what aspects can indicate a person predisposed to limerence
This is quite an eye opener, I had never heard of this.
Does it have any astrological link/root that you know of?
 
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