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I used placidus in those charts Waybread. I've heard that theory too but to be honest it makes little sense to me. In other northern locations maybe the case could be made, where life is more extreme because of the remoteness. But here in Scandinavia life is pretty much the same as elsewhere...

Ok, I'll post anonymized charts here, anyone who wants birth data can pm me. I'm not loyal to any particular house system. I look at several different, placidus, whole, equal... that gives me an idea of the variation between the systems and I tend to take that variation into account. Usually...

The only time I ever wanted a boyfriend was in middle school when everyone was suddenly having their first crush and I just went along with it because it seemed like the done thing. Found the prettiest boy in school and decided that aesthetic attraction was as good a crush as anything, lol! When...

If you are still looking I could provide details for myself and a couple relatives born in Vaasa, Finland. On the 63rd parallel north.

I have Jupiter and North Node in 7th but romantic relationships are really not something I'm interested in. I'm aromantic, asexual, and childfree too, so I've never been motivated to find a romantic partner. I like having close platonic relationships and sharing my life with someone, but romance...

I have Neptune at 7° Capricorn and IC at 10° Capricorn. My Neptune also connects to almost every other planet or significant point in my chart, either by longitudinal aspect or declination. My childhood was certainly Neptunian, but mostly in good ways. It was an unusual childhood, but I...

There is a reason I used the word 'people' instead of the word 'you'. This answer wasn't directed only at you. My point is that you (none of you) were in my head when I was a child. I was bullied for ten years and it took another ten years before I could look in a mirror and like what I saw...

For context... the bullies made clear to me that the reason they threw balls at me instead of hitting or kicking me was that I was too ugly and dirty to touch. I don't appreciate having the bulling I suffered minimized by people who weren't there and don't know what impact incidents like that...

In my experience that is not always the case. In at least a few cases I've stopped verbal abuse by not backing down from my abuser, either by treating their abuse as a joke and turning the laugh on them or by having a good enough comeback that they were silenced. A lot of the time the bully...

I was the subject of bullying from preschool, through primary and well into secondary school. I was visibly different in several ways. I was from a poor family, wore hand me downs and flea market finds, wore glasses, had a skin condition... I think what made me a victim though was that I was...

Chaotic good maybe? Gemini Sun, Virgo Moon, Libra rising. Mercury/Mars/MC in Cancer.

I'll join! Are you also in love with your Neptune?

Well... I've always been a very optimistic person and I've always had a good deal of trust that things will turn out. Nothing could ever truly bring me down. But the insecurities and anxieties that I would attribute to Saturn have resolved more an more over the years. I am past my first Saturn...

I have a similar situation in my chart. Sun loosely conjunct Chiron, both opposite Saturn. Saturn and Sun also square my Moon. I don't know if I have much wisdom to share, but I'm interested, so I'll follow this thread. I have experienced some of the same stuff in my life... bullying and some...

Well, I would say that the behaviour of a predator is the same, or at least similar, whether one prays on the innocent or the wicked. So for me it makes sense that aspects that might on one side of the coin give rise to a psychopath, on the flip side gives rise to a punisher. But I do agree that...

I'm thinking more in terms of aspects. Maybe Mars aspecting Pluto, both also aspecting Moon. Or Moon = Mars/Pluto. Especially with hard apects, fiery planet placements and outward acting houses...? I have Pluto trine Mars, both sextile Moon in my chart, and thus my Moon on the Mars/Pluto...

I lived in a hippie commune for six years. Very drug liberal lot, but none of them smoked regularly. That was in Sweden so weed was very much illegal, and still is for that matter. Smoking weed was usually an occasional rather than a regular indulgence. Parties mostly. I'm definitely a party...

It's the same as with tobacco for me. I have never said no if I was offered a smoke, but have never bought any myself.

I distract myself (neptunian escapism to the rescue) until the pain is less raw. Then I try to rationally think through the situation. What was it that hurt me? Was it a specific situation that might be avoidable in the future? Did a person intend to hurt me, or could it be that I...

What is there to explain? My natal sun is at 13°22' Gemini, which happens to be in the 9th house of my chart. Transiting Neptune is currently at 16°12' Pisces, so earlier this year, and most of last year, it was square my natal sun.