Hey there Vitas,
I replied to your last thread on your ASC, don't know if you caught that, but those were for you.
I'm very familiar with most of the sign energies in your chart, having some of them myself. I strongly LIKE your chart and wish to trade!
As Plutonian Princess correctly pointed out, you are deficient in the air element which helps us to "rise above" problems and gain perspective. This is needed -not just because of Scorpio/Plutonic intensity, but your Sun and Merc opp. Jupiter aspect can blow things out of proportion sometimes too. Fortunately there are solutions to that (and any emotional angst) explored below which take advantage of your strengths and your potential.
When you don't have air, you make the most of planets in air houses 3,7, and 11 and your Mercury. Your Mercury is in rulership, very strong there, practical and analytical -- Virgo is actually a somewhat "airy" earth sign in that latter respect. Jupiter offers expansion, fortune and faith in the house of friends, organizations, and aspirations or goals.
I'm going to weigh in here from another angle --that of karma (tests and lessons) and Dharma (soul purpose). If you don't believe in reincarnation, no problem, just substitute "past-life" with "past" or strike it out altogether. The meanings and effects are still relevant from any frame of reference.
Your South Lunar Node (SN) represents your past life, what is comfortable yet out-moded and obsolete, and it is a problem area usually solvable through pursuit of the opposite North Node. The SN is in Libra, the sign of relationships in the 6th house of work, health, and servants. This is usually indicative of a past-life of self-sacrificing service, and one of Libra's negative traits is to sacrifice themselves away in favor a partner's needs and desires. The ruler of the SN is your Scorpion Venus in critical degree, so the past-life relationship problem was further characterized by possessiveness, clinginess, etc. I can see a debilitating co-dependent relationship in your past-life with this mixture.
Positively, SN in Libra may actually confer a modicum of air as well as a natural, creative talent of some kind.
Saturn, the Lord of Past-life Karma, is in the relationship house, and effectively underlines that past-life relationship problem. You don't want to fall back into any of those patterns.
So how is this solved? By developing the North Lunar Node (NN) which is about the soul's evolution and advancement, and it's unfamiliar territory and uncomfortable sometimes, but it's where your maximum growth as a person lies. Here you must develop positive Arian traits within the 12th house.
Positive Aries is personal confidence ( and there is nothing more attractive than that to the opposite sex as a side note), assertiveness, and independence -to get away from "needing" another in order to be happy or fulfilled.
The 12th house is the house of prisons, hospitals, monasteries, etc. but for the purposes of the NN, it's a spiritual house requiring some seclusion and time alone. Learning to meditate and doing it regularly by yourself would help you immensely . When there is a deficiency of air, this helps remedy that, as it will help you to achieve calm, mental balance, and give you insights into your life.
The Aries NN is ruled by Mars and this tells you where else NN purposes can be achieved -in Capricorn in the 9th House. Capricorn is about structure, organization and discipline and the 9th about law, religion, travel, philosophy, metaphysics, etc. So what does this mean for YOU? Many possibilities, but Buddhism might be one option because it is a religion/philosophy which offers different types of meditation that might be helpful to you -Tibetan or Zen. Or, since you are a very physical and athletic guy, you could start with more meditative movements like Yoga or Tai Chi. Some types of Tai Chi are actually the basis of Kung Fu which could be another step, or even the starting one. But my feeling is that meditation and martial arts hold some keys to happiness and fulfillment for you. If you've done one or both before, I recommend getting back to it -full blast!
"Martial" pertains to Mars the Greco-Roman God of War, the namesake for the planet which is the ruler of your Aries NN. Martial Arts require discipline which is helped by your Capricorn Mars, they are also MENTAL disciplines which may help those who are deficient in air, and they ultimately foster self-confidence and integration -which is positive Aries NN fulfillment. And this in turn, may also help any self-worth wounds reflected by Chiron in the 2nd house. Everyone I know who has mastered one type or another (and I've known black belts in Kung Fu, Karate, and Aikido)are extremely self-confident, and mentally strong!
Your 6th house of health stellium and your Virgo Sun have helped you to develop a strong, healthy, fit body but this may be the next step, to develop and fine tune the mind. You are not the typical Virgo, your Sun is squaring Uranus which can make one rather eccentric, but channeled positively it's really wanting you to be independent and that also aligns with positive Aries.
Hope this helps and best of fortunes!