Dirius, please take your head out of the sand. Maybe you've just explained why you are not a husband and father yourself. You're not actually the expert on marriage here.
You mistake "sensitive" for "weak." Is this a frequent problem for you?
Nobody-- male or female-- wants a weak, needy spouse or partner who is constantly complaining. But many women have no interest in an autocratic, patriarchal ice-man sort of male. We saw that with our own fathers, thank you very much, and have no wish to repeat it in our own marriages.
Quite the contrary. This is exactly what women
these days are looking for. Your generation rebelled against such structure. The current generation didn't have it, and are drawn to it. And its much more rare than in your day.
You are old, and I mean no offense with this, but you have no idea how the current dating scene works. There is a generational divide between us, and I presume you have little experience with dating apps, current hook-up culture and other challenges my generation (and those who are younger) face on a daily basis. Women these days have higher expectations towards men than they did in your day, while ironically, men have less to offer.
If feminists are "ruining men," such men deserve what they get. As the old feminist saying goes, "A man of quality is not threatened by a woman of equality." What you're saying is that men were never all that strong to begin with.
Your Darwinian view of sensitive men vs. "providers" is 1950s rubbish. When were you ever a "provider"?
My husband of 25 years is a "sensitive guy" with a good income prior to his retirement-- now he has a good pension. Most women today with heads on their shoulders know they need to have their own incomes.
Why? Because at some point she's likely to need it.
My generation is less likely to get married, given most people my age grew up with divorced parents. The attitude of younger generations towards marriage is quite negative, particularly for men, whom are more concerned with living a simple life free of problems. And the current hook-up culture makes this much easier, given you can interact with multiple women, and be care-free.
The older women get, they have to lower their standards, and most end up being desperate for a relationship. If you go into Tinder, or some other app, you'll find an endless amount of women in their late 30's looking for a partner, which they will most likely never find. You can thank the "feminist revolution" for that.
