1. When my kids are relaxed

2.Tea with honey and cream

3. A

scented Heat pack on myshoulders
4.

when my kids are content-watching them play nice
5.Music
6.Streching
7.Massage
8.Art (either making something or just looking at things even astrology charts really but only when I am not trying too hard but just contemplating )
9.A clean house
10. writing out problems- throwing them away