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IceMaiden
07-16-2013, 04:48 PM
Hi guys,

Not sure if this is the right section. I'm having issues with a cancer man.

I'm a taurus woman and I met him in a nightclub where I went home with him simply for a one night thing. Didn't expect to hear from him again or pursue it.

As I got up to leave he begged me to stay and cuddle him in bed so I did and then we got into a lovely deep conversation all night which kinda made me fall for him a bit.

He texted me everyday since and decided to call me late the other evening. He was very deep and emotional, had been drinking and admitted I'm not his usual type but he has fallen for me "big time" and said he decided to get drunk because he couldn't stop thinking about me working (I'm an escort been honest about it). He said he doesn't want men touching me he wants me all to himself and he's going insane.

Kinda though woah! This is a bit much but I like him. I went over to see him and we had a chat and just cuddled all night. He was very romantic and typical cancer soppyness. Then he took me home in the morning, kissed me and asked me to text him later.

Guess what? He goes quiet for two days! But I'd quit my job for him and got an interview for getting back into real work just for him. He was distant.

I asked him where I stood and he said he likes me a lot but commitment scares him right now?! What.

I left it there and told him thank you for letting me know.

Has he become distant because he opened up and has gone back into his shell? :/

mina23
07-29-2013, 08:40 PM
I would say, yes. Don't worry too much about it, respect his space and he may be coming back before you know :) cancer's arent known for blowing people off. Theyre very sensitive and need space to regroup and regain confidence in themselves. Since he says commitment is scary for him at the moment, just be patient. Like I said, theyre fragile and if he's been hurt before, it takes a lot of time before they open back up into an intimate relationship again. But from what you said (and being a Taurus) things seem to be going in the right direction!

Mandy
07-29-2013, 08:59 PM
Hi!

I dont mean to go directly against mina23 or astrology in gen., but I do not hear this related to astrology at all. Frankly, he sounds unstable. His highs and his lows just seem too sudden and out of his control, and sound like either Bi-polar or like he has Borderline.

I hope every woman finds her prince, and all that. But I feel compelled to reply in order to flag this to you. You should stay away because there is more to this than you. Also, you dont know the rest of his chart and the fact he is a cancer does not account for potentially highly, intensely, out of control placements.

Good luck. Be safe.

P.s., I know too many Cancers to read your entire post as a Cancer trait. Yes, some people are more timid than others. But your description applies to more than that. Just my two bob.

serafin5
08-11-2013, 03:48 AM
Hi!

I dont mean to go directly against mina23 or astrology in gen., but I do not hear this related to astrology at all. Frankly, he sounds unstable. His highs and his lows just seem too sudden and out of his control, and sound like either Bi-polar or like he has Borderline.

I hope every woman finds her prince, and all that. But I feel compelled to reply in order to flag this to you. You should stay away because there is more to this than you. Also, you dont know the rest of his chart and the fact he is a cancer does not account for potentially highly, intensely, out of control placements.

Good luck. Be safe.

P.s., I know too many Cancers to read your entire post as a Cancer trait. Yes, some people are more timid than others. But your description applies to more than that. Just my two bob.

I have to totally agree with Mandy here. I don't believe this is an issue of this fellow being a "Cancer" or not; you ALWAYS have to consider the entire chart! Also, this man is playing games here - he is either into you or not right? Listen, I know one has to survive and life can get really lonely but please be careful! You met the guy at a club right? Red flags everywhere here!

Stay safe and God bless.
Serafin5