Originally Posted by watchman512
First find the ruler of your 7th house; also the ruler of your 5th house of romance. Once you find the rulers of these houses, you will find opportunities come your way when they send or receive solar arc directions.
The most common solar arc progressions for marriage are; Venus well aspected to the ascendant or midheaven. Transits, progressions and solar arc directions will be active the year you marry. Both transits and progressed or solar arc Lunar positions will be active in the year you marry. However the converse progressed or solar arc Moon is more frequently shown. Lunar eclipses may help to time the month of marriage; especially if they fall into your seventh house of partners.
You may find that your progressed or solar arc Moon is in aspect to anotherís
natal chart position.
Or when your progressed or solar arc directed Moon conjuncts your partnerís Sun, Moon, Venus, Ascendant or Descendant; also by converse movement.
Sometimes the progressed or solar arc moon (forward and reversed) will meet
your partnerís progressed or directed moon.
Marriage may be indicated if your Moon and anotherís; are opposite by converse
Transits made to your Sun/Moon midpoint; or to your partners. Transits to your composite Sun/Moon midpoint will also determine when you will marry. The composite Sun/Moon midpoint will be active; especially if anotherís Sun/Moon midpoint conjuncts yours. Check the progressed or solar arc directed Suns to see if they fall on the composite Sun/Moon midpoint.
It's really not a good idea to post a link to your personal account on astro.com as other people can access. Just download your chart and upload here after reducing to 63% image size....
The composite is already a 'midpoint chart' and therefore looking for another sun/moon midpoint is pointless. Checking natal, progressed or solar arc to composite sun or moon is ok, but not to composite sun/moon midpoint....
I note your progressed venus is conj your natal mars which is quite a sexual thing going on here.
I also feel the n nodes and vertex are important in synastry, which no one has mentioned thus far.
Now in approx 5years your progressed sun will conj natal venus... an excellent indication of significant relationship
Your progressed mercury is also conj natal moon which is great for communications with women and behind the scenes matters. Emotional matters can be aired properly.
Just noticed the chart I'm looking at was dated 'June 2008' so these aspects may be a 'departing influence' rather than exact.
Now T Saturn is in late Virgo and will be conj your prog mars and moon which may cause some frustration (mars) and slow of emotions (moon) when this happens
Next year T Neptune will conj your Desc which may cause confusion, illusion or deception. Neptune is the great 'dissolver' and things tend to disappear.
Regarding access to your son, maybe you should try asking a horary question in thier GLounge..
Ruler of your 7th is uranus and ruler of 5th is Jupiter. Now Jupiter is presently in Aquarius and will conj your 7th house cusp middle of June 2009 within 30"minutes and the next year properly first week in January 2010 with is auspicious and should present some opportunities for expand in one to one relationships.
When looking at a womanís chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
Now your sun is in Gemini in 10th and mars is in Leo in 1st conj Asc. So gemini wants to talk can be rather flirtatious and restless, procrastinating and indecisive, in 10th wants someone ambitious who is hard working, responsible and who will improve your social standing in some way. Leo wants to be the centre of attention, but is stubborn, well organised and passionate, sometimes a risk taker and in first house will be competative, direct and too the point in matters of amour.
I also think it's a little irresponsible for astrologers to talk in 'definates' with astrology, cos to me it's all about possibilities.