Thank you Aquarius7000 for bringing this thread to my atention
This is a discussion that fascinates me.The connections in my family are fasciniting(or atleast I find them so!
).My mom has passed her high nervous energy onto us,while at the same time my sibling's chart and mine reflect the conditions of our birth.Both me and my sister were wanted children,and we were both extremly screaming children.My brother was well desired and landed on a happy,nurturing home,and he has a dignified Moon in Cancer.
But,let me start introducing you to my family...
I was an unwanted child.At the time of my birth,my mom was20,studying in college,still had the maturity of a16year old.When I was born,doctors discovered she had Lupus.My parents weren't married,only my dad worked.When it was time for my mom to tell her parents she was pregnant,she locked herself in the bathroom crying;it was my dad who gave my grandparent's the big new.I was a very annoying baby,lived as if I had an on/off button:when I was on I was screaming,when I was off I was sleeping.The nurses used to carry me with them to their hang-out room sometimes,when my mom and the other moms in her room needed to sleep and I didn't stop crying.I didn't eat very much(if at all),my mom had her breasts sore all the time because of that.
As a result of that,I have a chart that's bottled with anxious energy.I have Sun/Moon/Mercury in the3rd,a Moon/Mercury conjunction in Aries(I was very independent from a young age,which is deeply related to the fact that I had/have to mother my mom very often)in square to Uranus in Capricorn in house1,plus Mars in Gemini in the6th squaring my3rd house Pisces Sun.A detrimented Venus in Aries tightly conjunct my IC-early home life wasn't harmonious at all.Capricorn rising plus1st house Saturn(Saturn in Aquarius sextile Moon/Mercury)for extra responsability and maturity.
By the time my brother was born,my parents were all set.We had a nice house,my parents had stable jobs,and they really wanted another baby.My mom's Lupus even got better during her pregnancy!My brother was a lovely baby,very beautiful features,very calm,rarely cried.The conditions of his birth are shown by his lovely 10th house Cancer Moon,conjunct his chart ruler,Mercury(he's a Virgo rising).
By the time my mom got pregnant with my sister,our house was in total chaos again.Neither my dad and I wanted a child,I even cried when my mom told me she was pregnant.She has an Aries Moon in square to Venus and Capricorn,11th house and Saturn in Cancer in the6th-feelings of being unwanted and undesired.Still,the pregnancy wasn't a complete disaster,and my little sister at least eated like a normal newborn and behaved like one too.But she has a very harsh temper(she's4years now),throws spectacular tantrums for no specific reason almost everyday!Her Sun/Pluto conjunction has a deep need to be in control,supported by that
I want what I want when I want it feeling given by her Aries Moon(which trines her Sun/Pluto conjunction).I have the feeling she will be another psychiatric case when she grows old.
My mom managed to pass her high nervous energy and anxiety problems onto us-she has a4th house Mars in Leo.****,that woman has a temper!
I saw her throw a lot of objects at my dad and insulting him really bad when I was a child.I blame her Mars square Saturn for her poor impulse control.She has two Virgo conjunctions
ne with her Sun/Moon and the other one with her Pluto/retrograde Mercury.Her Virgo energy is clearly reflected in both my chart and my brother's:he has a stellium consisting of Sun/Venus/Mars in Gemini in the9th,opposing a Pluto/Chiron conjunction in the3rd.His anxiety problems only started coming to light when my mom started getting her anxiety problems again,which in turn happened because of my depression.
My dad's heritage is quite different.He has Sun/Moon/Mars in Aries.He too has a Moon/Mars conjunction,clearly seen in mine and my sister's Aries Moons and my brother's Sun/Mars conjunction.Both me and my sister are hot tempered and impulsive.With my brother,the Cancer Moon tends to run stronger but once he gets angry he uses words as his weapons.
From all the three,I think I am the one with the 'worst' chart-in terms of anxiety and nervous energy that is,since there is no thing such as good or bad charts.I have a very bubbly,lively chart that makes me very reactive and incredibly in tune to my environment,and I admire the pleasures of simple things(flowers,the countryside,a cup of hot tea...)just like my dad,yet I have the mental complexity of my mom.My brother is very calm and dreamy;he and my mom share a certain indulgence(they both love food lol)(my mom has Venus in Libra by the way).My little sister is very impulsive and needs to always be in control,but when in a good mood she is a very charming,lovely child.She has my dad's bravery and enjoys playing with typical boy toys.
OK,so this is my family,in a nutshell
To sum things up I guess I could say my dad's Moon/Mars conjunction is showed by my sister's and my Aries Moon,Sun/Mars conjunction in my brother's chart.My mom's Pluto/Mercury turned into Sun/Venus/Mars opposite Pluto in my brother's chart,Sun/Pluto for my sister and probably Sun trine Pluto for me.
And if you read through all this,you get a cookie