i feel stuck here...Ive been really thinking about moving out and starting a new life on my own but my parents would hate me for that, i actaully don't care anymore what they think...them paying for college is really holding me back.. and money i would need money to move out...is it a karma aspect?...is there some kind of breaking point or future trigger planet that would end this?
First, the astrology: transiting (moving planets in the sky) Uranus (friends, also rebellion) is conjuncting (energy is combined with) your Ascendant (self), so you personally feel a strong need for friends and at the same time for "breaking free". Transiting Pluto (transformation) is conjuncting your Saturn (duty, also authority), so you want to transform your relationship with authorities so you can actually BECOME the authority.
Now a little reality. Moving out of your home is scary, and it takes effort. Although the astrology indicates you NEED to move out, you can keep resisting and resisting as long as you want...but you will never get on in your life. Personally, I would be surprised if you parents would "hate" you for leaving their house, moving out on your own, and decreasing their personal costs (once you start paying for things on your own). What you also need is a JOB so you CAN pay for things on your own. And right now (back to astrology) transiting (moving planets in the sky) Saturn (duty, also career) is trining (energy goes easily with) your birth Saturn, indicating career opportunities may be out there...if you are willing to look for them.
But it's your decision and no "karmic cop" is going to come to your door if you refuse to move out...but the astrological challenges will continue to grow and develop in your life until you work out these moving issues with your parents.