Stuck and Alone

[alliewar]

I have this problem, its has never been easy for me to make friends, i always had trouble fitting in at school, and i still do even in college, people are nice but... no one is a friend. When I do make friends something always happens that ruins our friendship, like the last one, for example, I always lived in the city but my parents moved away from it, so its been harder to hang out and keep in touch with my friends, we'd all hangout outside and in the parks and stuff. Basicly when it comes to social life things always flop on me, and it depresses me a lot. I have my car licenses but my parents are really protective and they don't want me to drive yet until there comfortable with me to drive on my own. I believe things have gotten worse when i moved on december 1st 2007. i feel stuck here, because at least in my old house i would have places to go on my own when i just need to step outside the house because its the city, now when i step outside my house, over here is just roads and.. grass.. blah.. Ive been really thinking about moving out and starting a new life on my own but my parents would hate me for that, i actaully don't care anymore what they think, but them paying for college is really holding me back.. and money i would need money to move out.. anywayyss I was just wondering, this whole thing about me, is it a karma aspect? I'd like to know what planets and aspects are involved I was thinking maybe its Capricorn in the 11th house. And is there some kind of breaking point or future trigger planet that would end this?

[wilsontc]

Allie,

You said:

i feel stuck here...Ive been really thinking about moving out and starting a new life on my own but my parents would hate me for that, i actaully don't care anymore what they think...them paying for college is really holding me back.. and money i would need money to move out...is it a karma aspect?...is there some kind of breaking point or future trigger planet that would end this?

First, the astrology: transiting (moving planets in the sky) Uranus (friends, also rebellion) is conjuncting (energy is combined with) your Ascendant (self), so you personally feel a strong need for friends and at the same time for "breaking free". Transiting Pluto (transformation) is conjuncting your Saturn (duty, also authority), so you want to transform your relationship with authorities so you can actually BECOME the authority.

Now a little reality. Moving out of your home is scary, and it takes effort. Although the astrology indicates you NEED to move out, you can keep resisting and resisting as long as you want...but you will never get on in your life. Personally, I would be surprised if you parents would "hate" you for leaving their house, moving out on your own, and decreasing their personal costs (once you start paying for things on your own). What you also need is a JOB so you CAN pay for things on your own. And right now (back to astrology) transiting (moving planets in the sky) Saturn (duty, also career) is trining (energy goes easily with) your birth Saturn, indicating career opportunities may be out there...if you are willing to look for them.

But it's your decision and no "karmic cop" is going to come to your door if you refuse to move out...but the astrological challenges will continue to grow and develop in your life until you work out these moving issues with your parents.

Astrologically real,

Tim

[alliewar]

Thats so good to hear about getting a job soon. I've been sending out resumes like crazy. I was thinking that all this was imprinted in my chart and I'll be stuck like this forever but I'm glad I can change things myself, cause I'll do anything to change things