Thanks for the feedback. I can see how you'd think "doormat" from what I described, though it's not the former lover who is asking for these things. He just more than gladly takes, like a teenager who isn't required to work for an allowance.
Psychologically, the client in question -- the ultra giver -- is operating out of guilt and overcompensating (over-protecting and over-nurturing) for a situation in his past in which a lover accidently died when the client, he feels, wasn't there to prevent it. He's transfered his remorse and grief for that into being over-indulgent to assuage his guilt. That's where I came up with Ceres -- the need to nurturer a replacement relationship and nurture himself through release of guilt.
I don't normally associate Pisces with being too nice per se, so thanks for that reminder about the victim/martyr/ self-sacrifice complex there.
That's a better interpretation.
Much appreciated.
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