Here is the chart:-
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Hopefully that will come up!
The situation is that John is my boss. We seem to get on really well and "click". I think he has the hots for me, and I'm just curious to know whether I am right. He is always moaning about his other half, and sometimes I think he feels a bit trapped.
Interpretation - In the chart the Moon falls in h5. Should I therefore take John's significator to be ruler of H5 or H7 do you think?
Anyway, the Moon is in h5 in watery Pisces (good for emotions) indicating love, fun, flirtation etc. It is separating from a conjunction with the Sun and Uranus (not great as therefore combust - so I guess this reveals my shyness and shakey ground). Also Moon (woman) separating from Sun (Man) is not great. However, Moon's last aspect is a semi-sextile to N. Node which is conjunct Venus (good sign? - not sure). Moon in h5 indicates end of the matter house is 8, so the end of the matter will be taxing in some way? My end of the matter significator is Venus (ruler of Taurus), which trines his end of the matter significator (Mars = ruler of Scorpio), which I take to be a yes (he has the hots for me). Moon last passed over Uranus, therefore changes will occur suddenly or resolutions will be found quickly. Also Moon in succeedent house indicates changes will be effective but made in private, and in Cancer decanant of Pisces meaning activity is going as it should regarding the question, but there may be some misfortune/change.
My significator is Venus, his is Mars (if he is represented by H7), or Saturn (if he is represented by h5). V & M are coming together in a trine in 7 somethings which must be a good sign. If, however, his significator is Saturn, perhaps the retrograde means he won't be interested. Saturn trines Juno in Sag (his other half is Russian! - perhaps that would be the reason why). Also Venus & Saturn don't really make any kind of aspect - bad sign.
So could somebody shed some light on which House I should use to determine his significator? And also, shed some light on whether John has the hots for me!