Ok, I cant stand this anymore and I want to sort it out!

[Liquid Green]

I have am still in love with a guy that I haven’t even SEEN in nearly 10 years.
We had the most profound experience together for several years when I lived in London....
Nobody has affected me with such depth since and i feel my life is actually just a bit of a waste without him...
I rang him earlier on today.....he still makes me melt....and understands me more than anyone else on the planet.....but I kinda got sad, and he told me (like he always has) that I need to be more confident in myself......
I kind of think if I never doubted myself and the way he thought of me, we'd still be together......
He has a girlfriend (but that’s never stopped me before), but she's new and he didn’t say anything about her.....suggesting to me that she’s not that important....( it gets a bit weird here cos our relationship never fit into the constraints of a 'normal' relationship.....we were a bit 'open', but its hard to explain)
Our synastry has our 12th moons sitting on top of one another.....our asc/dc are in polarity......but I cant read synastry further than that, so that’s why I ask this horary...............

What I want to know is..........IS DOMINIC MY SOUL MATE?

I would like someone to tell me first if the chart can be read.....somewhere I think i remember reading that saturn in the 1st or 7th is not good to read......am i right or wrong? I hope it can be read......(and of course i know what answer i would like to hear.......but the truth will do!)

[tikana]

hi

well

this is interesting chart

its not really radical

planet of the hour does not match anythng in the chart

saturn retro in 1st is never a good sign

sun is in critical degree

wel moon does trine saturn

well, most of the indicators are pointing to NO

I;d say no

best of luck
Tik

[Liquid Green]

Thanks Tik,

I know your good at horary..................




LG

[tikana]

hi

i wish i could be right in my own charts

Tik

[Liquid Green]

I know what you mean.......I have to much hormonal activity right now to be of any use.....Why does a person do this stuff to themselves......I really love this guy and cant get over him after all this time....its ridiculous.

[Moulin]

sometimes we find it hard to let go of thos who truly loved us, simply for the fact that they did really love us more than we love ourselves.
This could be why he mentioned the self confidence thing.... as self love = self confidence

please don't bash me over the head - i'm very intuitive and l think this is what he meant. I sometimes see this in you too and don't get defensive with me cos it's an observation plus you did ask XX

Originally Posted by Liquid Green

I know what you mean.......I have to much hormonal activity right now to be of any use.....Why does a person do this stuff to themselves......I really love this guy and cant get over him after all this time....its ridiculous.

[starlink]

Hello LG! I think I am of a different opinion. Hold your horses ladies, ha ha! No kidding. Look, the angles are all in fixed signs. The Moon, c0-significator of LG is also in a fixed sign and mutually applies to Saturn, ruler of Dominique.
Saturn in this chart is a significator of the quitsited and as such is not to be judged as malific in the 1st (or 7th for that matter). Problem here is that he is not really coming forwards because of the retrogradation. He is in LG's first house which is a good sign as well.

Now, his 5th house of love is ruled by Mercury and Merc. is in a critical degree and about to change signs which could indicate that his love for that other one is changing. Mercury will then go on , in new waters, to conjunct Jupiter who is ruler of LG's 5th house. Love meets love, bit simplistic but so what. LG, do you have an important planet in your NATAL chart making a good aspect to the Ascendant of your horary chart? That could be very important. I think he is your soulmate. also I see the soul as a 12th house thing and Moon rules it (also soul) and is in a fixed sign.
Cheers, Star.

[Liquid Green]

thanks starlink for having a look at this.....

I think he is my soul mate too......perhaps i should have asked am I his?

asc....right, merc and venus are conjunct my asc.....pluto trines it from the 9th....I dont understand how this helps...perhaps you can explain more...........


Later edit.......i dont know what i am doing here with this horary asc starlink........leo is dominics asc.....going to check degrees in a moment.....leo is my dc......sorry but i am confused....i want to wait till you get back.............

[Neptune Rising]

Hi there,

I understand that a retrograde planets can mean a 'return'.. so in the context of the question, souls return to each other to continue the dance of life.. just a thought..

NR

[Liquid Green]

I can only hope NR.........he's in South africa though and I'm in Australia........we met and fell in love in England.......I like that way you put it though......"dance of life"..........it was one of our favourite things to do....dance......he could be on the other side of a dancefloor and we would dance together, connect, without even trying.......man, the exchange of energy we had together......mmmmmm mmm mmmmmmm!.....even without touching each other........**** if thats not true love then somebody put me in a psych ward cos i must be nuts. I am so annoyed that life seperated us....(and visa laws!)
Money is whats needed to get us together again......maybe i'll ask santa!

Originally Posted by Neptune Rising

Hi there,

I understand that a retrograde planets can mean a 'return'.. so in the context of the question, souls return to each other to continue the dance of life.. just a thought..

NR

[Liquid Green]

ok .....I am adding his chart and mine......

[Liquid Green]

and a better horary question......

Will my son and I get to south africa before 2012?

I know i am asking for lots of help..and i dont have much to offer in the way of reading....but its like my xmas present to myself indulging my thoughts on us, and our possible meeting again..............

again the 1st and 7th have me stumped...

but if anyone has the time or inkling to help.....i will be grateful.

[starlink]

Hello Liquid Green, sorry to have kept you waiting but I have not been in the internet because of Christmas preparations, buying presents, looking after my grandchild of 2 years etc. It is now 10.08 PM and I can finally relax a bit.
Thanks for putting your natal chart up. I was looking for one of your natal planets and see if it would aspect your HORARY Ascendant. I see that your natal Venus is almost exactly opposing it, and because it is a question about love, I find that the chart is radical. Leo is the Horary Ascendant and your Natal Descendant, to do with relationships is also Leo. You also asked:

Will my son and I get to south africa before 2012?

You are Venus and the 9th house of South Africa is Mercury. Mercury will sextile Venus .Your son is ruled by Saturn and Mercury is going to trine Saturn as well. Last aspect of the Moon is an inconjunct to the Sun. Any Moon-Sun aspect is favorable, except the conjunction so this is also a good sign but does indicate that certain things have to be "adjusted" in order to get to a good outcome. So yes, I think that indeed you could get to SA before 2012. Moon will trine Mercury, ruler of the 9th in 6 degrees which could maybe mean 6 month, but timing is always very difficult so this is merely a wild guess from my side. It could also be 21 month because Moon is then getting to the cusp of the 9th house (21°).
I must go now. Hope to be able to come back tomorrow. Cheers, Starlink

[Liquid Green]

thanks starlink......I know this is a silly time of the year to be asking in depth questions with people so busy, so i really appreciate your time.
I would like to ask, if venus is opposing the horary asc, is this bad news?
get back to me when christmas is over if you can......

merry christmas!

[starlink]

hI Liquid Green, no, dont worry, nothing bad. I know that certain astrologers also include the natal Ascendant in the interpretation to get more info, but in this case I guess it has to do with the "love" question you posed. I is just for me a sign that the Ascendant in my view, is radical. This is often done when you have a too early or too late Ascendant you see. Then, if lets say, a very important planet from your natal chart is conjunct the horary Asc. you can render the question "radical" which means fit to interprete, that's all. That is why I asked you because Tikana believed that because of the planet of the hour does not match anything in the chart, so I looked for something else. OK, must go again. Merry Christmas and I will be back next week wednesday or so. cheers, Starlink

[tikana]

Hi

thing is Lilly does not obey the rule of radical hell of a lot so i am not saying you cant judge the chart .. i am saying i am not seeing anything spectacular..

cheers
merry xmas everyone

Tik

[Liquid Green]

Never mind tik.........perhaps Starlink was waiting till xmas is over!

thanks